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So recently I had a Tinder match that was quite out of the ordinary; a guy offering me far more than just dinner and a movie… When a person tells me about their fetish, I’m fascinated. I’ve been writing about sexual fetishes for years so I love hearing about people’s unique kinks and quirks. I’ve […]
Last week, for Fetish Friday, I talked about those who have a fetish for being punished, lectured and disciplined. The list of suitable punishments included spanking, verbal abuse, sensory deprivation, choking and more. One punishment featured in that list was restraint – and that’s what we’re going to be looking at in more detail this […]
It’s no secret that in the ever so kinky world of BDSM, some masochists- in addition to being used and abused- like to be humiliated. This fetish for humiliation is actually a pretty common one and can take lots of different forms. Rather than getting your fix from a regular Dominatrix, some experienced players even […]
For most men being called a “sissy” is hugely insulting, but to a kinky few this label is a huge turn on. The word “sissy” can be defined as “a person regarded as effeminate or cowardly” and is synonymous with “whimp”, “pussy” and “weak”. In a BDSM context a sissy is a male submissive, or […]
We Brits are perceived as being quite peculiar when it comes to sexual behaviour. Half the world seems to believe that we’re master’s of bondage and BDSM, into whips, canes and leatherwear, where as the other half seems to think we’re utter prudes who spend our time in bed reading and have sex solely for […]
For a lot of guys the last thing you’d want is to be beaten by a women in an arm wrestle after a few beers down the pub, but for some men there is nothing sexier than a muscular female body-builder. Female muscle fetish describes a fetish for women who lift weights, body build and […]
So it’s Friday once again, let’s look at the rather dark and disturbing fetish of a gas mask. Gas masks have existed in some form since ancient times. But when we think of gas masks, we, of course, picture the ones mass-produced during World War I and II. Colourless and claustrophobic, the sight of gas […]
It may be time to cross your legs (or look away entirely), as today’s Fetish Friday is Tamakeri! What’s ‘Tamakeri’, we hear you ask? Originating from Japan, it literally translates to “ball kicking” – or “ball-busting”! That’s right, we’re back in Japan this week, exploring yet another weird and wonderful fetish. Ballbusting – or ‘bb’ […]
Bukkake! A word so fun I’m having to stop myself from exclaiming it across the office. Originating in Japan, ‘bukkake’ is defined as the “act of splashing”. However, we know it means something different! Namely, an individual being decorated head to toe in the semen of multiple men.
If you’re the type of person who really likes to be dominated and isn’t afraid of a little edge play, then erotic asphyxiation may be right up your street. Erotic asphyxiation is an erotic act performed with a partner and is essentially choking or strangling. This differs greatly from auto-erotic asphyxiation which is breath-play done […]
