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Sometimes you need a bit more guidance before you get to the sex stage! Our Relationship Advice section is here to give you advice about dating, relationships, sex positions and much more.

Help Us Support the LGBT Foundation

At Bondara, our goal is to help everyone explore and celebrate their sexuality. Your pleasure, happiness and confidence is always our priority. This year, we’ve joined forces with the LGBT Foundation. We want to support the incredible work they do for the LGBT community, but we can’t do it alone.

Help us to help them by purchasing our Pride Luxury Rainbow Rabbit Vibrator. 10 per cent of sales of this limited edition toy will be donated directly to the charity. So, not only will you get a fantastic new toy, you’ll be helping an amazing cause.

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Find the Perfect Sexy Valentine’s Gift

Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching and, if you’re anything like us, you still haven’t found your partner the perfect present. Chocolates and flowers are nice, but vibrations and orgasms are nicer. So this year, make it your sexiest Valentine’s yet.

Our Valentine’s Shop is overflowing with deals and handpicked toys, lingerie, bondage and more that we think your partner will love. Below, we’ve selected some of our favourite pieces for him, her and both of you to enjoy. With something for every budget, the 14th February can’t come soon enough.
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Buying Sexy Lingerie for Your Partner: How to Get It Right

It’s nice to give presents. It’s even nicer when it’s one you’ll both enjoy. Unfortunately, buying lingerie is a minefield of erotic fantasy (hello, Angelina Jolie’s latex outfit in Mr and Mrs Smith) and disaster.

For something that’s only worn for a few minutes before it’s thrown onto the floor – hopefully with passion, not disgust – there’s a lot to think about. What size do you get? Which style will suit her best? Colour? Material? And if you thought teddies were just stuffed toys, you’ve got a lot to learn.

Fortunately, we’re here to help. Think of us as your lingerie guardian angels. Whether you’re buying sexy lingerie for Valentine’s Day, a birthday or a weekend away, this post explains how to get it right.

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Dealing with Jealousy

While jealousy is a natural part of relationships, it also has a nasty habit of tearing them apart.

When your other half has the cheek to suggest you aren’t always the centre of their world (how dare they), a little twinge of jealousy can be laughed off. However, deeply embedded insecurity can quickly overpower a relationship.

Sometimes, jealousy is completely understandable. Other times, it can be blown out of proportion. Here’s how to calmly and effectively deal with jealousy.

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How to Tell a Friend You Like Her

Escaping the friend zone is no mean feat and there’s no single correct way to tell a friend you like her. However, if there’s one thing you’ve got on your side, it’s that you know her – so you’re already halfway there!

First things first, don’t panic! Getting out of the friend zone is tough but doable. If you need extra reassurance, this is coming from someone who persistently friend-zoned their boyfriend. If he can do it, so can you.

So, let’s get down to business…

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Let’s Talk About Polyamory

The saying may be that two’s company, three’s a crowd but that doesn’t always apply – particularly for polyamorous people. Literally translating as ‘many loves’, polyamory refers to those who have more than one romantic relationship at a time.

Sounds like cheating, right? Well, it’s not. A polyamorous relationship requires the consent and knowledge of all those involved. Nor is a polyamorous relationship about having ‘a bit on the side’ or swinging. Each relationship is intimate, trusting and emotional.

There’s far more to polyamory than meets the eye – and studies have even suggested it could be healthier for us than monogamy! So, let’s talk about polyamory…

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Get Your Relationship Back on Track

No-one wants to feel like their relationship is in need of some TLC. It doesn’t mean you don’t love your partner – if anything, your determination to make things work proves you do! The beginning of a relationship is always exciting. However, once you’ve been together for a while, laziness ensues and it’s easy to fall into habits. Even though this is natural, it can easily make your relationship feel like one of routine rather than love. We hate the thought of you feeling this way, so we’ve racked our brains for how you can get your relationship back on track – with an added Bondara touch, of course.

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The Hottest Movie Scenes Ever

Julia Roberts on top of the piano, Maggie Gyllenhaal’s submissive state and Zac Efron’s shirtless wet body. Whether they’re realistic or completely over the top, the best movie sex scenes have rising music and tension-filled backstories. No one can deny we love a good film romp, and we’re here to round up a few of the hottest movie scenes ever. Prepare to swoon.

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Singles Awareness Day and Why We Love It

Valentine’s Day is finally over and, for those of us who are single, now is our time to shine. For the past few weeks, we’ve been bombarded with enough romance, love hearts and candles to make us gag. Now we can step out of the shadows and celebrate our single life. Our life that means there’s no snoring in bed, no hair grips everywhere and no one stealing the duvet.

Today is Single’s Awareness Day and, while it may not be taken quite as seriously as other holidays, that shouldn’t make it any less celebrated. The pessimistic (i.e. jealous) people, nickname today as S.A.D. when really, we’re just being thankful for our single, entire-tub-of-ice-cream-for-me life.

Turn up the Chaka Khan and belt out the Boys are Back in Town as we appreciate Singles Awareness Day and why we love it.

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