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The Art of Restraint

Last week, for Fetish Friday, I talked about those who have a fetish for being punished, lectured and disciplined. The list of suitable punishments included spanking, verbal abuse, sensory deprivation, choking and more.

One punishment featured in that list was restraint – and that’s what we’re going to be looking at in more detail this week!

Bondage has a huge part to play in the BDSM scene – that’s why it’s the first letter!

The practice of bondage can be very powerful, both physically and mentally, as well as being artistically beautiful at times.

What first comes to mind when we think of bondage is the surrendering of and seizing of power. The fate of the restrainee (sub) is completely in the hands of the restrainer (Dom).  Once the sub is restrained, the Dominant partner is free to do whatever they desire (within the boundaries of pre-agreed hard and soft limits).

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How to Win Back your Ex

Break-ups are devastating, particularly if you remain convinced they’re ‘the One’. Time apart tends to do one of two things: lead you to an Eat, Pray, Love enlightenment in which you decide you’re better off without them, or makes you so miserable you feel like Kate without her Leo or Ben without his Jerry. Hopefully, you’ll both realise what you’re missing and reunite. Unfortunately, that’s rare and it takes some work to get back together. Considering you’ve come across this page, we’ll assume you’re in the latter group. Here’s our guide on how to win back your ex…

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Punishment Fetish – From Tame to Extreme…

Some people out there in the big wide world have a fetish for being lectured or punished for ‘misbehaving’. Such people will have sexually submissive tendencies and a desire to be punished by a dominant partner.

I’ve heard stories of people who are so desperate to be chastised or beaten, they’ll do absolutely anything to aggravate their partner until they react in an aggressive manner. A male friend once told me he was in a relationship with a woman who was very submissive and got her kicks from severe punishment. Although he himself was sexually dominant, he wasn’t dominant to the extreme extent that she liked.

The girl would pick fights over nothing, physically attack him and even fool around with other guys until he became so angry he beat the living daylights out of her. After the beating, she’d be bruised and in a lot of pain…but oddly satisfied. He, on the other hand, felt incredibly guilty for beating the woman he loved. But, at the end of the day, he knew that it made her ‘happy’.

So, if your partner is into punishment and discipline, in what ways can you chastise them?

Here is a list of ideas going from fairly tame to very extreme…

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Our Top 10 Sex Toys for Couples

Introducing our top 10 sex toys for couples to have you both screaming ‘yes, yes, YES!’.  Whether you’re after some foreplay fun, intercourse excitement or anal play, a toy is perfect for spicing up the bedroom. With so many to choose from, finding the best one for both of you can feel daunting – and if anything will kill a hard-on it’ll be that – so we’ve compiled a handy guide (what would you do without us?).

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Suction Dildos – Wall-Banging Fun

Wall mounted sex toys! Heard of them? You’ve probably seen them, maybe even used them without realising that you could have gotten yourself off by sticking it to a wall. That’s right, hands-free fun with Suction Dildos.

Dildos with suctions cups on the base are made so you can stick them to certain surfaces and give yourself a literal joyride! Many people will go straight to sticking their dildo on a wall and not think much else of it, but there are so many more ways to use this amazing toy. You can mount them on chairs, the floor or in the shower or bathtub – the possibilities are endless.

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Pet Play – What’s Your Kinky Spirit Animal?

Pet-play, or animal role play, can be a very fun and creative take on the D/s relationship within the world of BDSM. Rather than being a standard, human submissive, why not try being an adorable kitten or a dirty, filthy pig? This week, for Fetish Friday, here is a list of the most popular animal characters for BSDM pet-play…

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Addicted To Cam Sex

Adult webcam sites have become increasingly popular over the years with many online pleasure-seekers opting to watch “real people” play live, rather than watching professionals act out a scripted scene. But with so much choice it can be easy to become addicted to cam sex.

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5 Ideas For Sploshing Fans

I’m often asked how I come up with ideas for Fetish Friday every week. How did I come up with 5 Ideas For Sploshing Fans for example?

Well, this bank holiday weekend I’ll be stocking up on cider, packing up my tent and heading to Leeds Festival. The last time I went to Leeds Fest  (summer 2013) the weather was atrocious and consequently the entire site was an absolute mud bath!

I remember people were wrestling in the mud, using air beds to race down slippery mud slides and were generally drenched from head to toe.

Reminiscing over that muddy affair got me to thinking about wet and messy fetishism. So,  the prospect of sliding through the mud this weekend gave me inspiration for these 5 wet and wild tips for sploshing lovers. 

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Going for Gold – Fetish and the 2016 Olympic Games

With the whole world going crazy for the Olympics this month it would almost have been rude not to dedicate a Fetish Friday blog post to this historic event and to the gorgeous athletes whom compete in these prestigious games! And writing this post is all the more exciting in light of the fact that Team GB are doing so fantastically!

However, when Google searching “athlete fetish”, you’d be amazed by how many search results I found for “athlete’s foot fetish”…

So, what Olympic sports are the most exciting to watch?

Gymnastics, swimming, diving, wrestling and hockey are all very easy on the eyes… and there is never an empty seat in the Women’s Volley Ball arena!

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Fetish Agony Aunt


We’ve been publishing Fetish Friday for a long time now and we get quite a few questions from readers about their own fetishes. So….over to our Fetish Agony Aunt, Charlotte for some personal advice.

(Leave us a comment below or email us at [email protected] and be part of the next Fetish Agony Aunt post!)

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