Being one of your erogenous zones, the nipples are a highly sensitive part of the body, so stimulation in that area can be deliciously pleasurable, or delightfully painful, depending on which way you’re inclined.
Nipple clamps can really intensify your sexual experience as they encourage blood flow, thus making the nipples more sensitive and more erect, then every touch, tug, lick or pull feels all the more pleasurable.
But if you’re looking to really take nipple play to the next level , you may like to try out nipple weights.
I’m guess I won’t find these in the gym?
You most certainly will not. Nipple weights are for those of you who really like to get kinky in the bedroom. These little wonders pull down on your nipples making the sensation more intense and the pinch more extreme.
Small and delicate, the weights hang from your nipples which both feel wonderful and add an arousing aesthetic element.
Sounds delightful – where should I start?
The world record for nipple weightlifting is 29KG – but why don’t we just start with say, 50 grams?
You should gradually increase the amount of weight you can handle, which is known as nipple training, and your body will learn to tolerate the pain – pleasurable pain – then you’ll be able to handle heavier and heavier weights.
Nipple stimulation is a tantalising and exciting way to spice up regular intercourse, so if you don’t think this Friday’s Fetish is too frightening, maybe you should give it a go 
50g Nipple Weights with Tweezers
So, what is a cuckold?
Well this rather unique lifestyle choice attributes its name to the cuckoo bird – a species of bird in which the female changes its sexual partner frequently. In a cuckold relationship, the woman has sex with numerous other men, whilst the male partner stays faithful and actually enjoys knowing that his wife is being pleasured by other men, and sometimes even watches.
Urmm… that’s a bit of an unusual set up?
Yes, but, if it works for them, who are we to judge? A cuckold relationship has a lot to do with feelings of inferiority and the enjoyment of humiliation. Often it’s the male partner, rather than the female, whom most enjoys this kind of relationship.
Being a cuckold husband is usually a consequence of not being very well endowed, or having a low libido or low self-esteem. The man then gains sexual gratification from seeing his wife be pleasured by a “real man” who will usually have a bigger penis.
Still a little confused? Well, I was lucky enough to have an interview with a woman who enjoys a long term cuckold relationship – Mistress Mira, Hungarian fetish and adult model – who invited us to take a very intimate look at her unusual lifestyle.
Could you please enlighten our lovely readers by telling us a little about your cuckold relationship?
“I have lived with my cuckold partner for more than a year, and I live a life of sexual freedom. I have many lovers, I make porn and femdom videos, and my cuckold groom is faithful to me, of course.
“I fuck him no more than once every three months, but this is only for my benefit and he fucks no one else. He is a nice, dear man and I love him very much, but he’s no good at sex. His penis is small and he has a low libido. He’s a sissy boy, not masculine; he can’t fuck me hard enough.
“He is the perfect husband; he is sensitive, faithful, devoted, submissive, loves the children and does all the housework… his sexual life only involves licking my feet, pussy and ass, and sometimes he eats the cum of my lovers from my pussy after they’ve fucked me. In a week he’s allowed to masturbate once.”
What do you like about being a cuckold mistress?
“I love the sexual freedom and I love fucking real men. I love to live like a princess, to humiliate and have slaves. My cuckold gives me love and my lovers give me good sex – I need both! I am very happy.”
What does your fiancé like about being in a cuckold relationship?
“My groom loves that I’m happy – this is of prime importance to him. He knows that he’s not a real man and that he’s shit in bed. He loves to see me enjoy sex with real men and accepts that our child’s father will be a real man”
How do you think getting married will make your relationship stronger?
“My wedding will be a great party – before the wedding I will fuck my lovers, and on our wedding night I will fuck other men and my husband will just sit and watch this.
“My wedding night will be recorded and the video will be uploaded onto porn sites.”
Mira was also keen to inform me of their tattoos; she has “domina” tattooed across her neck and her fiancé has “cum eating cuckold” tattooed in huge letters across his abdomen – I bet that surprises a few people at the beach!
So there you go! That is a cuckold relationship. If you’re still scratching your head then maybe cuckolding is not for you
Are you looking to really heat things up in the bedroom? Maybe you should try lighting a few candles…
Wax play, also known as temperature play or heat play, can be a very erotic and highly sensual experience. This fiery delight, however, is not just for those into hardcore BDSM; pretty much anyone can add a bit of wax to their boudoir and take sex to the next level… provided you know what you’re doing.
Hot wax? That sounds painful!
Well yes, it is painful, but in a good way. The amount of pain you experience has a lot to do with the type of wax you use. Some candles simply deliver a warm and soothing sensation, where as others are capable of doing some serious damage.
Using very hot wax is considered by some to be “edge play” as it pushes the limits of what most would consider to be ‘safe, sane and consensual’.
When the wax is poured onto your body, the initial sensation will be very intense, a feeling that you may consider to be painful, but as the wax cools your skin is left highly sensitive, so that every touch feels amazing.
Okay – any tips for beginners?
Start with a candle that burns at a low temperature so that you can get used to the new sensations. This will give you a chance to work out whether you could handle a hotter wax – You may love the intensity and crave something much hotter!
The temperature of the wax will change according to the distance from which it is poured. It is generally thought that pouring from a height of about 18 inches is a safe distance, but make sure no wax splatters into the eyes. If that’s not hot enough for you, try reducing the distance.
Something fun to try could be incorporating an element of bondage, or maybe even a blindfold, so that your partner has full control over your body and you don’t know where the wax is going to stimulate your skin.
Top Tip for Beginners: Try applying oil to your skin before pouring over any wax, as this will make the wax a lot easier to remove later.
A guide to candles:
Safety precautions:
Think you’re ready to take your sexual experience to the next level? Well have fun, play safe, and enjoy a much more exciting and much more sensual night of passion.
Bondage Heat Play Wax Candle – melt at a lower temperature to provide sensation without the risk of burning.
Bondage Candle – BDSM – Melts at around 54C for pleasure without burning.
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Flicking the bean, bashing the bishop, wanking, self-love…whatever you call it, we all do it so to celebrate the Masturbation Month of May (we know, we know, we’re early!) we want to know all about your masturbation habits.
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