It’s all about the girlboss grind this International Women’s Day, so celebrate with this femme-tastically intimate sex position.
How Do I Do It?
This is a fun, modified missionary sex position that allows for girl-on-girl grinding. Prop a good firm pillow under the Receiver’s bum and hips. A yoga cushion or sex position cushion is prefect but no stress if you don’t have one, the goal is to get the Receiver’s hips are elevated. If your partner has a large chest, you may need to elevate their head to prevent boob related smothering.
Once the Receiver is comfortable, the Giver kneels straddling their partners thigh for grinding, or between their spread legs for fingering, using a toy, or penetration.
Why Should I Try This Sex Position?
Kneeling prevents the Giver from having to maintain a ‘plank‘ over their partner (that could cut intimacy short). This makes this sex position more accessible than traditional missionary. Your hands are also left free to explore your partner’s body and use toys without breaking contact.
Plus, the Receiver’s hips being tilted up makes it easier to hit the G-spot or P-spot if you’re using a dildo, g-spot vibrator, or strap-on. Think; all then benefits of Doggy with the face-to-face intimacy of Missionary!
Make It More Orgasmic
Face-to-face proximity with room to move is ideal for busting out the toy box. A bullet vibrator trailed teasingly over external hot spots, a massage wand pressed against clits and bits for sustained shared pleasure, or even a couples vibrator sandwiched between you are all ways to incorporate your favourite toys.
This sex position is also a great choice for working in oral sex. The angle of the Receiver’s hips means you wont have to deal with neck strain. Don’t forget there are plenty of oral sex aids, like flavoured lubes and Oral Sex Spray, to increase everyone’s enjoyment. If you’re worried your oral skills might not be up to muster, check out our cunnilingus tips.
To step up the intensity even further, one or both partners can wear a butt plug. Not only will this increase the amount of stimulation you get, but may provide an alternative way to trigger a female partner’s A-spot or O-spot (sometimes called the C-spot).
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Here at Bondara, we know everyone likes to knock boots, so we are working to ensure everyone is represented on our website.
We are committed to inclusivity and diversity. So, we are depicting a range of genders and sexual orientations in our Sex Position blog posts, including straight, gay, lesbian and gender-neutral couples. All instructions will detail how to make our sex positions work for any relationship.
