Wrap your lips around these blow job tips! Follow our advice and get ahead of your oral skills to blow his mind.
1. Learn Their Preferences
Every dick is unique, just like the person it’s attached to. They know their body the best, so ask for advice. This could be a very to-the-point list: “Do you like your balls played with, where’s most sensitive, etc.” However, you can have fun with it! Mutual Masturbation is an arousing opportunity to observe their solo technique and learn from their experience.
There are some things your partner might like in blow job porn that are a 100% turn-off for you. Gagging, choking, eyes watering, and general discomfort, you get the idea. If you really don’t want your hair grabbed, or thrusting into your mouth, SAY SO. You never have to do anything you don’t want to.
EXTRA. Shower Together
Whether it’s swampy boxers, or sweat and smegma trapped under the foreskin, this can create an off-putting smell. As long as there’s no indication of a medical problem, there’s no shame in suggesting you take a shower together.
Offer to wash him; it’s sexy, and you’ll know everything’s clean. Plus, if you happen to find yourself on your knees in front of the bathroom mirror, he will love to watch you blow him.
2. Mind Your Teeth!
This might seem obvious but you’d be surprised how many people forget it. Make a wide, round O with your mouth, and you should feel your lips naturally cover your teeth. If you practice in front of the mirror, don’t be put off if it looks like you’re mimicking a sex doll!
Your tongue can be used to buffer your bottom teeth, and if you can gently work the underside of the cock at the same time, it adds another layer of stimulation.
3. Get Wet & Messy
Whether it’s your own saliva or a water-based lubricant, a well-lubricated blow job is easier for you and more pleasurable for him. Reducing friction helps lessen jaw aches and sore lips, while flavoured lubes will mask their natural taste if you struggle with that.
Don’t worry about looking like a mess. There’s nothing wrong with a sloppy blow job, and it can be sexy. Just remember to stay hydrated so your body can make enough saliva!
4. Variety Keeps Things Exciting
Blow jobs aren’t just bobbing your head up and down. Using your hands and tongue, with a mix of techniques, is the key to a good blow job.
The head is packed with nerve endings, so try sucking just the tip while licking the frenulum (the ‘banjo string’). Meanwhile, running your tongue up the length of the shaft is a great way to get in a sneaky breath break.
The average erect penis is 5.6 inches long, while mouths are only 3-3.5 inches deep before reaching the ‘gag zone’. So, to go the distance, use your hands or an open-ended blow job masturbator. Stroking his cock in tandem with your mouth will extend the pleasurable sensation.
5. Show The Balls Some Love
They often get left out, so giving them a tickle, and squeeze while you suck his cock will get your man’s heart racing. Just be mindful that they bruise easily. Try swirling your tongue around the scrotum like you’re trying to lick out a 99 ice cream.
It’s not just the balls, either! Depending on position, give their bum a squeeze, play with his nipples, and don’t ignore the rest of the body. You can even incorporate anal play and the P-spot. One taint-tickling way to make his toes curl is to massage his perineum, a sensitive spot between the ball sack and anus. Experiment and see what your partner responds to.
6. Don’t Worry About Deep Throating
For the uninitiated, ‘Deep Throating’ is when you can take the penis deep into your mouth until touches the back or down your throat. Thanks to its popularity in porn, it can feel expected, but it’s an advanced technique that requires practice and preparation.
That said, if it’s something you’re curious about, there are ways to ‘train’ your gag reflex by practising on a slim dildo or your fingers. You can also use an oral sex aid, like Blow Job Spray, that lightly numbs the back of the mouth.
Start slow, breathe through your nose, and make it part of a blow job, not the focus. Ensure there’s plenty of lubrication, and talk to your partner beforehand so you are in control of depth and pace.
7. Are Spitters Quitters?
Whether you spit or swallow, it’s entirely up to you, so don’t feel pressured either way. Like anything, it’s worth trying once, even if it’s only to see your partner’s reaction. It can be hot to watch your partner swallow, but splattering their face in baby batter can be arousing, too.
It’s best to swallow in one gulp if you can, as semen is a bit viscous. If you can’t or don’t want to swallow, be polite about spitting. Don’t hock a loogie, it’s not sexy. If a guy ran to the bathroom to brush his teeth after going down on you, wouldn’t you feel offended? Spit into a tissue or towel, like you’re trying to spit out something chewy at dinner.
EXTRA. Stay Safe
Yes, we have to be responsible for a second. It’s possible to get STIs from oral sex. No one wants gonorrhoea in their gums, so if you don’t know your partner’s STI status, you can use a condom during a blow job. Flavoured condoms are made precisely for this!
Also, don’t brush your teeth afterward. Oral sex temporarily alters the pH of your mouth, so brushing can wear away your enamel. Brushing can also create micro abrasions in your gums and put you at risk of irritation and gum disease, even if your partner is clean. Swill with mouthwash instead.
8. Relax & Enjoy It
Don’t focus on the results, not everyone cums from getting a blow job. Enthusiasm is and will always be the number one tip for anything involving sex. Make eye contact, and don’t hold back noises – let your partner know you’re into it; plus, a moan provides feel-good vibrations.
Up the intimacy by touching yourself, talking dirty during breath breaks, and agree before starting whether or when they can return the favour (btw we have a blog full of cunnilingus tips 😉). Mutual pleasure is always perfect, and the more fun you have, the better the blow job will be.
Now set those lips to suck, you’re armed with our top blow job tips you’re ready to rock his world. Do you have your own tips? Share them in the comment below and let us know if you used any of our suggestions.
