You’ve heard of the G-Spot, now meet your P-Spot! Unlock a buttload of male pleasure with a little prostate play.
Keep reading for your backstage pass to this super-O-worthy spot!
What’s The P-Spot?
P-Spot is an erogenous zone that includes the prostate and surrounding area. The prostate is a small, walnut-sized gland between the penis and the bladder. It’s also incredibly sensitive, unsurprisingly, as the prostate plays an important role in ejaculation.
You might have heard it called “the male G-Spot”, but let’s not get it confused with the actual G-Spot! If you’re curious about that gem, read all about it in our blog devoted to helping you find the G-Spot.
Why Is It Special?
Not only is the P-Spot super sensitive, it sits in an area of the body packed with nerve endings and blood vessels. This makes prostate orgasms much more intense, and men have described the experience as more lasting, stronger, and ‘full-bodied’ than a regular orgasm.
Master the way of the prostate, and you can climax without even touching your penis, the fabled “Super-O“. Also, you can potentially unlock the ability to have multiple orgasms. So, it’s definitely worth a try!
Not only will it be one of the best orgasms you’ve ever had, studies have shown that it reduces the risk of developing prostate cancer…
Ta-BOO!
Let’s put this to bed before we begin. Experimenting or enjoying anything anal DOESN’T make you gay. It’s just a route to pleasure that should be as shame-free as any other preference, kink, and/or fetish. You can fight me in the comments.
How Do I Find The P-Spot?
Start with hygiene!
- Make sure your anus and hands are clean, and trim your nails.
- Use protection like latex gloves and condoms with a partner
- Don’t skimp on lubricant, and reapply throughout.
- Anal relaxants are lightly numbing and can prevent discomfort, but use sparingly. Remember, pain is your body’s way of telling you something’s wrong.
If you have any concerns about safety, why not check our 6 Questions about Safe Sex blog.
Getting Into Position
There’s no right or wrong ‘position’ for prostate play, as long as it’s easy for you or your partner to reach your behind. The key to anything anal is to relax! So, make sure you’re comfortable, doesn’t matter if you’re squatting, on all fours, or legs akimbo.
Explore Your Posterior’s Interior
Now, liberally lube around and inside your anus, and your fingers. Massage your backdoor open, then slowly insert your well-lubricated finger inside. Gradually work your way deeper, feeling towards the front side of your body.
The prostate swells when you’re aroused, so don’t rush. About 2-3 inches in, you’ll find a little, ridged spot. Congrats, you’ve found your prostate!
Experiment with rubbing, tapping, or a steady “come hither” gesture using the pads of your fingers. If it’s out of reach, don’t worry there are toys to help.
Crack Open The Toy Box
While you could use a dildo, there are toys specially made for your prostate. Often slim, like the P-Shooter, and resembling a finger, prostate massagers are designed to slide inside comfortably and curve towards your P-Spot.
With ergonomic handles or bases, they’re easy to use. Try rubbing the tip around to find what angle feels the best, then experiment with applying more pressure.
You might also find an up-down motion that strokes your P-Spot is orgasm inspiring for you.
There are vibrating massagers, too, that deliver amazing sensations through their high-intensity vibrations.
Battery-powered (or rechargeable…) toys open up a world of options. Remoted controlled, like the Smart Ass, waving, rotating, thrusting, or inflating – if you can think of it, there’s a toy for it!
Smaller tips feel more intense, but it’s easier to locate your P-Spot with more bulbous heads. With practice, you may orgasm hands-free by clenching and releasing around your toy. Whatever you choose, focus on your comfort.
The choice doesn’t end there! Butt plugs can be worn while masturbating or penetrating a partner. Though not traditionally intended to stimulate the prostate, toys that curve, similar to the Wingman, are ideal.
If you want to incorporate broader anal play into your sex life, anal beads are a great way to work your way up to prostate massagers. Offering the same ‘full’ feeling as plugs, their beaded texture are thrilling to remove as you climax.
Don’t forget to clean your toys before and after every use! Here’s our guide to sex toy care if you have questions.
Positions
When it comes to stimulating the prostate via anal sex or pegging, favour positions that allow for the most friction against the front wall of the rectum. This could be doggy style, or something as simple as missionary with a pillow under the receiver’s pelvis.
It’s entirely possible to mix and match prostate play with oral sex, masturbation, or penetrating a partner. Just make sure any toys have a safe, flared or flanged base, or a handle you can securely grip! No one wants a trip to A&E because their bum has swallowed a sex toy.
Why not try one of our P-Spot-approved sex positions below:
Final Thoughts
Prostate play, or anal play in general, isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. The sensation can take some getting used to, or the experience may be too intense for your personal taste.
Ultimately, if you don’t enjoy it, that’s okay. You’re not a failure or weird, you’re just not built that way.
As long as your sex life is otherwise fulfilling, there’s no need to force it.
Bottoms up!
