Swing into this sex position for a hole new ball game. Just remember that fore-play is important before you Tee Off.
How Do I Do It?
Start with the receiving partner lying on their back on a surface about the height of the giver’s waist. This will probably be your bed, but be adventurous and experiment with anywhere comfortable. With the giver standing at the edge, lift the receiver’s legs and rest their feet on the giver’s shoulders.
A firm pillow placed under the receiver’s bottom can provide additional comfort. Plus, with their hips raised, they can lean back to experience a headrush!
Why Should I Try This Sex Position?
Having your partner’s legs raised to your shoulders allows for deep G-spot, or P-spot, stimulation before you even crack out the toys! As the giver is standing, it takes the typical pressure off of them to maintain the typical missionary position. This means you can last longer and experience extended intimacy.
This sex position is great for anal too, as it makes your lover’s bottom easily accessible. Plus, the receiver looks incredibly submissive and lends itself to gentle sub/Dom dynamics or even Primal play.
Make It More Orgasmic
Worn by the receiving partner (if you’re having PiV), a butt plug can provide a satisfying fullness that makes it easier to reach their G-spot. It might even stimulate the ‘A-spot‘. The giver partner could wear one as well if P-spot pleasure is their thing. Or, prepare for anal sex by wearing a butt plug to make it easier to sink into a hole in one. 😉
Put some power behind your drive with a vibrator. Whether using a couple’s vibrator to stimulate you both or something small, like the Bondara Gentle Touch, to slip between you, a little vibration goes a long way. Don’t be scared to get creative, either. If your partner is wearing a solid butt plug, just watch their reaction when a massage wand is held against the base!
Now, if the submissive stance of the sex position appeals to you, why not embrace it? Crack out a pair of handcuffs for a bit of kinky restraint play. If you want to take bondage further, the fatty part of their thigh/buttock is nice and exposed – perfect for spanking! Try a riding crop or paddle, but first-timers should check out our guide to safe impact play!
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We are committed to inclusivity and diversity. So, we are depicting a range of genders and sexual orientations in our Sex Position blog posts, including straight, gay, lesbian and gender-neutral couples. All instructions will detail how to make our sex positions work for any relationships.
