Getting frisky in public, trying high-tech mutual masturbation, or keeping passion steamy over long-distance? Remote vibrators let you experience toe-curling vibrations at the tap of an app or press of a button.
We’ve gathered a couple of our top picks, along with recommendations to make the most of having power at your fingertips. 🖐
So, What Are Remote Vibrators?
Before jumping in the toys, let’s establish just what a remote vibrator is. From little packages to large ones, these toys can be controlled remotely, either by you or by your partner. This could be by a remote that comes with your toy or an app for your smartphone to control via Bluetooth.
These discreet sex toys can be used at home but peek their kinky capabilities in public. Recently they’ve caused a stir on social media with couples uploading funny videos where they buzz their partner’s bits while on dates or doing the shopping! We’ll go into this a little more later but suffice to say there are loads of benefits to these toys, even if you don’t fancy buzzing your way through a taxi ride.
Spice Up Sexy Time
You’re reading a sex toy blog, you know sex toys are a great way to heat things up! Now, you could use these like your trusty wand or rabbit vibe, except the remote makes positioning more comfortable. No shame there, this pillow princess totally understands.
However, what sets these horny handfuls apart is the possibility to pass the power to your partner, letting them take control of your pleasure. You can explore power dynamics without chains and whips (unless you want to), as well as get a thrill out of spontaneity and extended foreplay.
Date Night Delight Remote Vibrating Love Egg
Love eggs are the go-to remote toy for women. Slipped inside with a little lube, these can be used to make foreplay last all day, from kinky cleaning, move night magic or a delightfully dirty dinner.
With its powerful motor, the Date Night Delight really rumbles against your hotspot, with three increasing speeds and six raunchy rhythms to explore. The remote is super simple and makes this eggstraordinary whether playing solo or with a partner.
When you’re ready (and if you want to), this love egg is perfect for taking out on the town.
Tandem Remote Vibrating Double Cock Ring
Keeping you harder and stronger for longer, you can’t go wrong with a cock ring. Especially when they also vibrate with a single click of a button.
With double the performance-enhancing rings to emphasise your package and a vibrating bumper to please clits (and other bits), the Tandem c-ring really pumps up your pleasure.
Safety first! You may be tempted to wear this in public, but cock rings should only be worn for 20-30 minutes. Keep it for teasing, pleasing, and as a kinky reward during sessions.
Make Anal Easier with Remote Vibrators
Now, some of the fun of anal play is the control you have over your stimulation with toys like anal beads and probes. But (pun intended) if you want to explore good vibes, a remote makes everything easier. Lie back and enjoy yourself without the fuss of fiddling with the power button.
Rim Stim Metal Remote Butt Plug – 3.8 Inch
Remote buzzes have come for your butt too, and anyone that enjoys anal play can explore the intense stimulation of vibrations. Can you use this in public? Definitely! It all depends on how capable you feel you are at holding yourself together 😉
A classic tapered shape means you’ll have no trouble bearing down on the Rim Stim. Its metal body provides a gratifying weight, and three intensities and seven sphincter-pleasing patterns will have your knees trembling.
Being made from steel also means you can play around with temperature play. Warm it up or cool it down before inserting it for a breathtaking experience that can’t be beaten!
Take It Outside
Public Play is a Yuck or Yum scenario for lots of people. Some can’t imagine sex anywhere except behind closed doors, others find nothing hotter than the idea of getting caught. Using a vibrator on your partner in a crowded space can be a fantastic way to build their arousal, especially if they can’t do anything about it. At least until you get home…
However, there is a difference between being quietly kinky in public and public indecency! Just because you consented doesn’t mean the waiter, shop assistant, or salon technician wants to be included.
Bondara Belle Remote Control Vibrating Knickers
Want to get sexy in the streets? One of the more affordable entry-level toys, a pair of vibrating knickers could be your undercover lover… As long as you can hold the moan 😉
These elegant undies look the part and hide a bullet vibrator with 10 intensity levels for secret satisfaction. Easily removable, you can use separately the bullet or swap it with your favourite mini toy.
You’ll be so horny by the time you get some privacy you’ll be ripping each other’s clothes off.
Butterfly Stroke Remote Control Couples Vibrator
The next step up from love eggs is couples vibrators with more bulbous insertable ends. These give your hoo-haa something to grip onto and stay in place once you’re in private to please you both.
The Butterfly Stroke flutters against her clitoris and his shaft, while internally, it tickles her G-spot for blissfully blended orgasms you can both enjoy. More powerful than a panty vibe or egg, and with 12 modes to choose from, this couple’s vibrator can pack steamy spontaneity into date night.
Like a lot of insertables, this is waterproof and perfect for bathtime or poolside antics.
Near, Far, Wherever You Are
So far, these toys have had short-distance remote controls, so now check out these Bluetooth beauties. The tide of sex tech and app-controlled toys is steadily rising, and these pleasure products push the boat out when it comes to worldwide sex-periences. If you’re parted by miles, apps are an absolute boon. They also come loaded with online options to play with on your own too.
Satisfyer Mono Flex App Controlled Rabbit Vibrator
Packed with app-pealing features, Satisfyer’s Mono Flex means you don’t have to be in the same room (or country!) to have outstanding clitoral and G-spot stimulation.
Indulge in depth-defying vibrations whether you’re online or off. Not only can you sync your Spotify playlist to the vibes, but sharing with your partner is super secure! You control who pushes your buttons, including taking away that access if they misbehave.
Svakom Emma Neo Webcam Warming Wand
With its warming feature, the Svakom Emma Neo offers lifelike touch from afar with all the benefits of a luxury toy.
Not only can your lover light up your loins from afar with the app, but there are also online goodies to enjoy even when you’re in the same room. Try the ambient mode, for example, which makes every word deliver a buzz down below. If you want to play with power and edge around orgasm denial, the Emma Neo could be your way to go.
Plus, through the FeelConnect app, you can sync the Emma Neo with compatible online videos and webcam feed for close encounters of the cyber kind.
But wait, there’s more! Brands like KIIROO aim to bridge the gap for long-distance connections with male and female toys that synchronise with each other. Keep an eye out for tantalising teledildonics for a fucking good future on the horizon.
So, there you have it my delightful delinquents, go put a buzz in your step! Have you been inspired to try one of our remote vibrators? Leave us your tips and stories (saucy or silly) in the comments below!
