Anal Pleasure: Going Nuts For Butts

Anal pleasure has existed since the dawn of time.

A true testament to our natural urges can be found in the hole-y book – with a whopping 930 mentions! Yes, the big man pretended to hate anal. But really, he didn’t stop banging on about it.

It’s really no wonder that we’ve had a hang-up with the other place to put your wang up. Until now…

So, it’s fair to say that the popularity of booties and bum-related fun is now taking our bedrooms by storm!

Here are some tips and tricks to lubricate your love life for a blissful bum!

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Why Butts?

Let’s accept the naked truth – you’d be hard-pressed to scroll through your social media without coming across a few butts these days. It could be said that the OnlyFans ass model is an unofficial symbol of our times.

But, since the age of mattress actress Sasha Grey and the infamous Kim Kardashian sex tape, booties, big and small, have been on the agenda.

Worldwide searches for ‘anal’ on preeminent smut site Pornhub have risen dramatically recently. According to their ‘2019 Year In Review’, deeper anal-ysis revealed that the United Kingdom has witnessed a 14% rise for ‘anal’ searches. Whereas there was a worldwide jump of 30%, with the category coming in fifth position for British bum lovers.

Looking to a female perspective, a 2019 qualitative study gave some insight into straight women’s attitudes toward bum fun. Revealingly, several participants not only felt great when enjoying anal sex personally but also believed that more women should give it a go!

With statements like “I think it is one of those things that, once you kind of are comfortable with it, it’s really rewarding“. Or “It’s like a totally different sensation and a pretty strong orgasm too. Yeah, I really enjoy it!” – We couldn’t agree more 😉

Clean as a Whistle

Let’s be frank, anal sex has the potential to become a little messy. Yup. After getting down in booty town, there is a distinct possibility that the brown stuff will end up in the mix and on the sex toy/condom/dick.

However, we’re all adults here – and it’s only natural. With pooping being the primary function of your ass, it’s pretty important for bottoms (receivers of anal sex) to approach butt stuff with the healthiest gut possible. A high-fibre diet and good hydration will keep you regular and in good form.

There are effective measures that the D-receiver can take prior to anal sex to further reduce the probability of poop. So, try a pre-game anal douche or enema for a sparkling sphincter that’ll keep your hygiene worries at bay for carefree anal fun.

Lube Me Up, Buttercup

When it comes to diddling your derriere, it’s important to understand one important rule: ALWAYS use LOTS of lube. Unlike the vagina, your asshole doesn’t self-lubricate!

So, here’s the DL: Penis-in-anus sex naturally carries a higher risk of transmission of sexual diseases, especially for the receiver. Without lubricant, the skin can chafe and tear due to the friction, causing pain and providing a handy pathway into the bloodstream for grotty STI’s.

Negate the risks by splashing out on some lubricant. And when in doubt, wrap up with a condom before doing the do.

There are tonnes of luscious anal-suited lubes on the sexual wellness market to choose from. Formulated to be thicker, slicker, and longer-lasting; they’re ideal for this more sensitive form of penetration.

Anal Toys for Solo Stimulation

So, you’re not yet familiar with the toe-curling full-body eruption of pleasure that awaits you when it comes to bum fun, but you’re understandably keen to try. Dip your toe into the water with some pertinently pleasurable sex toys, designed specifically for your ass.

Whether you’re a backdoor beginner (check out our Beginner’s Anal Sex Toy Guide) or anal aficionado, Bondara’s range of bodacious anal toys has everything you need to explore the deeper delights of bum fun. Why not have a gander at our top-rated anal toys to experience our customer’s tried and true products?

Prostate Milking

Yes, you’ve probably heard of the prostate (AKA the P-spot), but unless you’ve experienced man’s sweetest spot, then you’ll likely underestimate the power of probing this potently pleasurable place.

Adventuring to the promised land means inserting a well-lubricated and well-filed finger into the bootyhole, and then sliding it gently along the front wall of the rectum for approximately two inches. There you’ll notice a slight bulge that’ll feel highly pleasurable to the touch and will swell on further massage.

After a surprisingly short while, you’re almost guaranteed to experience the strongest climax of your life as shuddering pleasure radiates throughout your entire body. No kidding; stimulation of this walnut-sized wonder is the key to an explosive ejaculation – fittingly known as ‘prostate milking‘.

So if milking your manhood sounds right up your street, but you’d prefer to start small, try external P-spot pleasure with indirect stimulation of the prostate. Rub upward onto the small area of skin between the testicles and the rectum on a place called the perineum, AKA the taint. With a few simultaneous slaps of your throbbing erection, you’ll reach a knee-knocking orgasm in next to no time.

And once you’re well-acquainted with your love button, you’ll wanna exploit that hot spot for all it’s worth!

Eat Out to Help Out

Whether you call it rimming, eating ass, tossin’ salad, or kissing the rose – buttholes are a permanent addition to the modern menu and for hella good reason.

The tiny nerve endings populating the ring relish the soft stimulation of a warm, wet and eager tongue. When paired with the secondary stimulation of the cock or clitoris, you can get ready for lift-off! Plus, a face full of booty feels fantastic for bum lovers – ever heard of the face-sitting fetish?!

But if you’re tentative about tongues being stuck where the sun doesn’t shine, don’t panic! Prepare your lovin’ oven with a refreshing shower or douche and apply a flavoured lube to the desired area for mouth-watering results!

Anilingus, as it is known, makes for incredible anal foreplay as it relaxes the tight muscles of the sphincter with lashings of loosening pleasure – not to mention, the slippery wetness of saliva that, paired with A LOT of lube, aids perfect insertion.

Going P.I.A. (Penis-In-Ass)

Gay and bisexual guys have been getting up to the good stuff for time immemorial and it’s about time everyone else joined in! Sure, ‘taboo’ is a super-arousing psychological device and anal is not going to be for everyone, but let’s chuck the outdated views surrounding bum fun in the bin?

Bodily pleasure is firmly on the agenda – no matter what your gender or sexuality. Plus, it’s your right to pursue your desires, explore your body (alone or partnered) and work out what makes your erogenous zones twitch. Period.

P.I.A. can just as easily become D.I.A. (dildo in ass). Strap-on or skin – A phallus is a phallus.

But always keep in mind that your partner’s pooper is a sensitive spot. The unfeeling strap-on dildo is unable to detect the constricting reflex that occurs on painful stimulation of your lover’s butt. So, you’ll need to rely on clear verbal communication and body language with every thrust.

So, check out our pegging play/strap-on article for universal tips and tricks for brandishing your boner safely.

We hope you have found this tuppence-tickling introduction to bum fun helpful and encouraging.

But, what’s your take on anal play? Do you have a sexy story to tell us? What’s your favourite anal toy?

Leave your comment below to join the conversation 😉

Have fun!

Mike

August 8, 2022 at 2:29 pm

Apologies in advance for the long post, I find this subject fascinating! Reading around the subject, I found that many anal enthusiasts seem to have a collection of toys, whereas I hadn’t experimented much. I have been more than happy with my Nexus Excel which I have been using infrequently for more years than I dare to say. The Excel is a classic design and pretty good. Made from very solid polypropylene, any small movement, either from clenching the internal muscles of the anal cavity, or by manipulating the external handle, gives a very responsive nudge to the prostate. There is a sense of driving the prostate stimulation through good muscle control, which is always good.
I took a notion to buy the Bondara Pleaser, based on a good price and great reviews. I wanted to try out a slightly larger toy with the benefit of an integrated vibrator. Having given it a good road test I am fairly addicted to it, I now look forward lustily to my weekly session and I would say it has reinvigorated my enjoyment of anal massage and prostate stimulation. Although over 5 inches insertable length (which is big for me), the pliable silicon has a bit of give in it and has more of a flesh-like feel. There is just a small amount of flex in the shaft which is brilliant for focusing the mind on breathing and muscle control, and there is less risk of pushing too hard – slowly does it gives me the best results. I love the meaty girth and gentle ridges around the bulbous head, which provides a very satisfying amount of resistance as it goes in. In fact, the experience of inserting the Pleaser is so delicious that I have started repeating the process a few times before getting started. It has been pointed out by a reviewer that switching on the vibration whilst inserting the Pleaser can help the process of easing it in if required, this is a good tip but maybe try without for the fuller experience. The shaft narrows somewhat allowing for fantastic grip, although there is still enough width to stimulate the anal sphincter with some gentle stretch. I find there’s zero chance of it sliding out accidentally even with plenty of lube, it’s literally wedged in tight. It then flares out to a comfortable base incorporating the separate perineum massager. Personally I believe the Pleaser is possibly half an inch, or up to one inch, longer than it need be in relation to my particular anatomy. However, this is absolutely not a problem, once over the widest part I can accommodate the full length comfortably and it still provides excellent prostate massage. I am perhaps a little bit below the average height of a western male, and have a slim to medium build – so for a taller or more heavyset man, the length might be utterly perfect, but I suppose it all comes down to the internal anatomy of the individual. When fully inserted the base fits snugly between my buttocks so that sitting, lying down, showering, or even walking around outside is very straightforward, discreet, and generally trouble free. I have not yet mentioned the multiple vibration options, but I take it as read that any user will find their favourite, mine is currently the slow rumble.
I am now very sold on the idea of having more than one anal toy, trying different formats generates different experiences, and from time to time I even return to my old Nexus Excel although the Pleaser is my favourite, why? Well, the unyielding hardness and anatomically perfect fit gives a much firmer ride and intense pressure on the prostate. It is actually less comfortable and more physically demanding although smaller.
I now have it in mind to try one of the weighty stainless steel toys next, I’m really keen to feel the coolness of the metal and to hold the additional weight inside me. I’d be really glad to hear others’ thoughts on this or any other anal topic.

9 comments

horny lad
July 25, 2020 at 12:34 pm

I have been exploring anal play solo n recently got my gf involved slowly. Love it solo and have invested in lubes, I can now manage to get 12inch up my bumper n lovevthe thrill of anal fun … soo good

horny lad
July 25, 2020 at 12:36 pm

I have been exploring anal play solo n recently got my gf involved slowly. Love it solo and have invested in lubes, I can now manage to get 12inch up my bumper n lovevthe thrill of anal fun … soo good
Love getting in doggy position n sliding my 10inch dildo in n out.. yummy

- Mike
  September 19, 2022 at 12:49 pm
  
  Yes, doggy works really well when inserting a prostate massager too. Somehow it’s easier to spread my buttocks and open up my hole.
  
@giantcockfuck
September 6, 2020 at 12:03 pm

I’ve been into anal for 20 years . I have so many large toys I use for milking . One of my favorites is a anallock huge stainless ball . I mount it in my shop every morning . I have a workbench which has a vice and I secure the huge ball in the vice , wipe a little Vaseline on it ,drop my pants and back up on to it , it’s the perfect height . I back up onto that huge 3″ stainless ball and work it passed my sphincter in less than a minute and before I know it I am popping that huge ball in and out a thousand times a minute and I start cumming and have orgasms the more I fuck it the more I get off . I practice this every morning and every evening I fuck the hell out of that big ball.

horny lad
September 7, 2020 at 5:11 pm

Thts brilliant can I kindly join you for the anal fun??

Theshed
September 11, 2020 at 10:23 pm

Don’t do it regular, prefer to save for special treats.
Feels great but strangely I am never able to cum ?
Mrs wasn’t keen at first so I started by inserting finger whilst having sex.
Moved on to but plug and I lubed it up and gently started to probe, before long she was moving up to meet it and get it in there !

Peter
February 19, 2021 at 10:57 pm

I love anal although have never yet experienced full on anal sex with anyone else. I have several dildo’s that are well used and have also today purchased a large butt plug from here (7.5″ circumference.. https://www.bondara.co.uk/bondara-purple-silicone-anchor-butt-plug-3-35-4-inch) which I cannot wait to try out. I love the stretching sensation, it’s so horny and when my missus stretches me I cum so hard. I have only rarely managed to cum as a result of anal penetration, I get close often but most of the time just fall frustratingly short. Prostate massage doesn’t seem to work for me but maybe I’m doing it wrong. I’m going to spend some time practicing that again… it’s fun regardless lol.

Mike
August 8, 2022 at 2:29 pm

Apologies in advance for the long post, I find this subject fascinating! Reading around the subject, I found that many anal enthusiasts seem to have a collection of toys, whereas I hadn’t experimented much. I have been more than happy with my Nexus Excel which I have been using infrequently for more years than I dare to say. The Excel is a classic design and pretty good. Made from very solid polypropylene, any small movement, either from clenching the internal muscles of the anal cavity, or by manipulating the external handle, gives a very responsive nudge to the prostate. There is a sense of driving the prostate stimulation through good muscle control, which is always good.
I took a notion to buy the Bondara Pleaser, based on a good price and great reviews. I wanted to try out a slightly larger toy with the benefit of an integrated vibrator. Having given it a good road test I am fairly addicted to it, I now look forward lustily to my weekly session and I would say it has reinvigorated my enjoyment of anal massage and prostate stimulation. Although over 5 inches insertable length (which is big for me), the pliable silicon has a bit of give in it and has more of a flesh-like feel. There is just a small amount of flex in the shaft which is brilliant for focusing the mind on breathing and muscle control, and there is less risk of pushing too hard – slowly does it gives me the best results. I love the meaty girth and gentle ridges around the bulbous head, which provides a very satisfying amount of resistance as it goes in. In fact, the experience of inserting the Pleaser is so delicious that I have started repeating the process a few times before getting started. It has been pointed out by a reviewer that switching on the vibration whilst inserting the Pleaser can help the process of easing it in if required, this is a good tip but maybe try without for the fuller experience. The shaft narrows somewhat allowing for fantastic grip, although there is still enough width to stimulate the anal sphincter with some gentle stretch. I find there’s zero chance of it sliding out accidentally even with plenty of lube, it’s literally wedged in tight. It then flares out to a comfortable base incorporating the separate perineum massager. Personally I believe the Pleaser is possibly half an inch, or up to one inch, longer than it need be in relation to my particular anatomy. However, this is absolutely not a problem, once over the widest part I can accommodate the full length comfortably and it still provides excellent prostate massage. I am perhaps a little bit below the average height of a western male, and have a slim to medium build – so for a taller or more heavyset man, the length might be utterly perfect, but I suppose it all comes down to the internal anatomy of the individual. When fully inserted the base fits snugly between my buttocks so that sitting, lying down, showering, or even walking around outside is very straightforward, discreet, and generally trouble free. I have not yet mentioned the multiple vibration options, but I take it as read that any user will find their favourite, mine is currently the slow rumble.
I am now very sold on the idea of having more than one anal toy, trying different formats generates different experiences, and from time to time I even return to my old Nexus Excel although the Pleaser is my favourite, why? Well, the unyielding hardness and anatomically perfect fit gives a much firmer ride and intense pressure on the prostate. It is actually less comfortable and more physically demanding although smaller.
I now have it in mind to try one of the weighty stainless steel toys next, I’m really keen to feel the coolness of the metal and to hold the additional weight inside me. I’d be really glad to hear others’ thoughts on this or any other anal topic.

Mike
August 23, 2022 at 9:28 am

Can any gents out there give some advice on the Bondara Backdoor Bandit? It’s had some good reviews and the prospect of 8 inches insertable length, with stimulating vibrating beads sounds awesome! I’ve never gone beyond 5 inches and I wonder what happens when you get past the prostate. Do you feel the vibrations on the prostate as well as deeper in? Does it flex if it encounters any bends in the colon? I always sluice out before using either my Nexus Excel or Bondara Pleaser, so it’s always clean and smooth up there, and I love the full feeling and the pressure on my anus and prostate. I feel ready to take on more of a challenge but I’m just wondering if anyone has any tips or suggestions that would help me decide whether to take the plunge?

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