Temperatures are rising, and it’s not just the BBQ that’s sizzling… make your summer a sexy one with these five simple steps.
Whether things get spicy in a sundress or you’re flying with the mile-high club, read on for your boarding pass to pleasure.
Sunshine doesn’t just feel good, but it also boosts levels of that all-important D – Vitamin D! Sending oestrogen and testosterone levels rising alongside the mercury, libidos can reach a sky-high this time of year, now’s your chance to jump on your sexy summer bucket list.
Outdoor Adventures
Warm weather and longer days, it would be a shame to waste it indoors! Slip into your sexiest summer outfit (Sundress Challenge, anyone?) to soak up the sun and shag away from home.
Outdoor sex is a common fantasy, whether due to the novelty or a risk of being caught. Legally, I can’t encourage you to find a secluded spot after lounging on a beach. But, it’s not my fault if the mood strikes while out and about… especially if there’s a pair of crotchless knickers under that sundress.
Experiment with wearable toys, like remote control love eggs, to experience the exhibitionistic thrill without breaking any decency laws. Or, if your fence is high enough, build a love nest in the garden for sex al fresco.
Explore Your Senses
Between summer hols and skimpy clothes, now’s the time to indulge your senses. For sexy sunseekers, cracking out the sun cream isn’t just sensible but SENSUAL when rubbed in like a massage oil. The same goes for aftersun!
Feast your tastebuds on some erotic edibles during a passionate picnic. But if your partner is tasty enough, drizzle on chocolate body paint and turn them into a sunkissed sundae.
Too hot to touch? Explore erotic sensation play with feather-light touches and sultry scratches to tease your senses when you can’t stand skin-on-skin. Or, embrace the heat and throw yourself into sweaty sex. If you really want to get messy, try learning how to squirt!
Ramp Up the Romance
Stuck with a staycation? It can still be saucy; just embrace your romantic side. Take advantage of anticipation to make the moment feel special.
Never underestimate old-fashion seduction. Crack open some erotic fiction together, and read aloud to get you in the mindset or spark inspiration. Add in a teasing vibrator or tantalising lingerie, and you’ve got a recipe for erotic bliss.
Extend foreplay with sex games; something as simple as a game of cards with a cheeky deck can heighten the sexual tension. Especially if you work in some sexy summer forfeits – poolside strip poker, anyone?
Single? Make it a summer of self-love! Schedule a romantic evening with yourself. A long bath or shower, your favourite masturbator with a drizzle of cooling lube, and unhurriedly explore your body.
Go On Tantric Travels
Sun, sea, a sexy summer fling; stepping off a plane can light up your libido. Maybe get a headstart and join the mile-high club…
Between an exotic location and maid service, hotel rooms are the starting place for spicing up a scorching holiday. Use this time to try something new – whether slipping into sexy lingerie or exploring different sex positions.
Bullet vibrators are discrete and can be slipped into hold or hand luggage. Pop out the batteries to avoid an embarrassing encounter with airport security.
Don’t forget to check our summer sex packing guide for tips so you can take your toys with you!
Get Wet & Beat the Heat
Heat can get the best of the horniest holidaymakers, there’s only one solution – get wet*! Skinning dippy is not only an adrenaline rush; the cold water makes your skin more sensitive. In a pinch, a quick cool shower will do the trick too.
Hot weather is ideal for temperature play. An ice cube trailed over skin provides delicious relief when nights get muggy. Or, better yet, save the ice for drinks and use a chilled glass toy. Test the temp on the inside of your wrist, and cooling comfort is a stroke away.
Don’t forget lube when banging in the bathroom! Running water washes away the body’s natural lubrication and water-based formulas. Opt for long-lasting silicone lubes instead (and check it’s compatible with your condoms).
*I don’t recommend sex in the ocean, hot tub, or communal swimming pool. It might sound hot, but the UTI risk isn’t!
Been inspired to have fun in the sun or got a saucy summer story to share? We’d love to hear them in the comments below.
