BBW & Fat Fetishism

So this week Fetish Friday is BIGGER and better than ever before as we venture into the supersized world of BBW and the men who love them.

For those of you who don’t know, BBW stands for Big Beautiful Woman (/Women) and describes ladies of an extra-large size. Now I don’t mean especially tall or muscular, but large in terms of dress size with a ‘whole lot of junk in the trunk’.

Generally, these women are at least a (UK) dress size 16, but there seems to be not upper limit in terms of weight when it comes to just how big men like their women to be. Sometimes the fetish can ‘expand’ into the rather dark realms of immobility where the women are so big they struggle to get out of bed or leave the house and require full-time carers to wash, dress and feed them- but for some guys, that’s all a huge turn on.

The BBW fetish is extensive and men like bigger women for a wide variety of reasons, so let’s look at the things bigger women are adored for.

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Soft, Warm and Cuddly

Rather innocently, a lot of men like fat women because they’re soft, nice to cuddle and warm to snuggle up with (generally if you’re eating excess calories you radiate more body heat). I read an interview with a guy who described how he loved to cuddle up with lots of warm pillows and blankets as a child and how this gradually evolved into a fetish for bigger women. In this regard, a man feels safe, loved, protected- even ‘mothered’ – and is drawn to a bigger, more ‘motherly’ woman.

Ass and Titties

A lot of men like large breasts and a big booty, but when it comes to BBW fans, they like women with XXXL curves! These men want breasts big enough to lose your face in and an ass that could take a pounding all night long; “more cushion for the pushing” as they say. Yes when it comes butt and boobs, bigger is always better.

Big, Round Bellies

Just as some men are drawn to breasts, ass, feet, armpits (wait, what?), some men just can’t get enough of big, round bellies. Whether it’s the curves or the soft skin (due to being so stretched) there is just something highly erotic about women with large bellies. I read a story by a man whose wife would give him ‘belly wanks’, supposedly even more satisfying than a tit wank, she would engulf his cock in her flabby belly and fuck it until he blew his load in her bellybutton.

Goodbye Inhibitions

It’s true that women can be intimidating, and stereotypically ‘smoking hot’ women even more so. Some men simply wouldn’t want a night with a Playboy model because it would be terrifying. When a man is with a larger woman he can feel more relaxed; less worried about his own body and insecurities. When a guy finds it easier to let go and relax with a naked woman, he’ll have a lot more fun!

Thin Isn’t ‘In’

Some guys just don’t like thin or skinny women; any sight of a rib or collar bone protruding through the skin is a huge turn-off. These men like a bit of meat to grab on to. Most couldn’t think of anything less appealing than a runway model! Furthermore, some men hold true that bigger women are just better in bed!

So hopefully by now, you’re understanding the fetish a little more, maybe you’re even considering trying to supersize yourself? Well let’s take a look at some of the subcategories of this fetish;

Squashing (Dominance)

Squashing is when a man likes to be squashed or crushed by the weight of a very fat woman. Variations of this include fat ass facesitting, tit smothering, high heel trampling and large belly squashing. Often the man will withstand the pressure for as long as he possibly can. He’ll then signal for her to get off before he is crushed (or suffocated) by the weight of her body.

To some men, the idea of being squashed, smothered or trampled by a BBW really causes a stir down below. Some guys travel hundreds or thousands of miles to be sat on and dominated by their favourite Big, Beautiful models.

Force-Feeding (Submission)

Force-feeding entails a man dominating a woman by forcing her to eat, up to and beyond her being very full. Funnels, and even pipes, are used to force-feed. They guarantee that the sub eats as much as possible to gratify her dominant. This is sexually arousing as, just like in any BDSM relationship, there is an element of control and power.

The sub enjoys being dominated, feeling full, and eating beyond the limits of what she usually allows herself to consume. This fetish shares some similarities with belly stuffing, which I covered in a previous post.

Gaining and Feederism

When a person has a gaining fetish they become obsessed with the idea of their partner gaining weight. The feeder provides food for the feedee (or send them money for food). Then he will record the girl’s weight and body measurements as her heaviness increases.

The bigger the girl gets the more arousing this is. The feeder grows more satisfied that he is responsible for making the girl bigger, fatter and ‘more beautiful’. A feeder will find it incredibly sexy when the feedee outgrows her clothes or is unable to button up a pair of jeans that used to fit her. Some feeders like to ‘grow’ their partners to such an epic extent that they’re immobile and completely reliant on the feeder to do everything for them.

Gluttony is one of the Seven Deadly Sins, it’s wrong, it’s naughty, it’s dirty, it’s delicious, it’s allowing yourself to experience pleasure beyond the realms of what is socially acceptable, and that can be highly arousing.

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So, I hope you found this week’s Fetish Friday interesting, now it’s time to ask yourself; how many Easter eggs will you be eating this weekend?