We went to one of London’s most exclusive FemDom events; The FemDom Ball!
A true celebration of Female Dominance, this was a high-class occasion where we mixed and mingled with some of the world’s most renowned Dommes. Read on to get all the saucy details…
Arriving at the Femdom Ball
The Fem Dom Ball is an event like no other. Hosted by the illustrious Madame Caramel and MC’d by the esteemed Countess Diamond, we were incredibly excited to attend.
While Bondara has gone to the Ball before, this was a first-time experience for the three of us. All we’d heard were the legendary stories of previous years. So, we had no idea what to expect as we stepped out of our taxi.
We were escorted downstairs by Susie, a sissie we’d previously met during our Day with a FemDom early this year. Glasses of champagne in hand, we mingled with the Dominatrices, who’d already arrived. There was an air of anticipation as we watched more guests arrive, with Madame Caramel greeting every single one.
As you’d expect with such an exclusive event, there was a pretty strict dress code. Decked out in ball gowns and evening wear, female attendees shone in their finery. Meanwhile, the men blended into the background in bondage hoods and black tie. As more guests arrived, we watched the endless parade of silk, leather, latex, pearls and feathers. The dress envy was very real!
Dommes from all over the world had arrived with their subs, from Edinburgh to Plymouth, Berlin to the USA. We spoke to one Lady from the Netherlands who told us her pet had treated her to a shopping spree in Central London.
For This Evening’s Entertainment
Now, you might think that an event centred on Female Power could be a bit snooty or intimidating. But everyone we spoke to was so welcoming! Every conversation we had left us feeling empowered; When I professed that I could imagine doing the catwalk (an event later in the evening), a Mistress at our table simply said, “Why not?”.
However, it was slightly surreal to overhear conversations between Dommes about how they’d made their submissives climax without even touching them. While all the submissives seemed very happy to sit rubbing their Domme’s feet adoringly, it felt a stark contrast to the lovely, bubbly women we were talking to.
Everyone settled in, found their seat and their friends, and the Ball began with an introduction from our Mistress of Ceremonies, Countess Diamond. A well-known FemDom with her own niche in cerebral domination, you may recognise her from her ‘Kinky Kitchen’ TikToks.
Then, we watched an incredible performance from DiscoDiva where she danced to Gloria Gaynor’s rendition of “Can’t Take My Eyes Off” of You with a giant black dildo. Which she married at the end, by the way!
Madame Caramel grabbed our Social Media Manager, Georgia, and recruited her to model in the kinky catwalk. The next time we saw her, she was sauntering down the hall in a stunning harness. We were treated to a fabulous runway featuring leather corsets, latex bodysuits and PVC harnesses, with fashion-forward FemDoms strutting their stuff.
At this point in the evening, the men were told they could remove their hoods. But, only if allowed by their Mistresses. Given that the venue had gotten quite warm, filled with 250 FemDoms and their pets, it must have been hot in those hoods. Who cares; it’s what they wanted.
FemDoms for Charity
However, this celebration was not just a fabulous party! Other than fun, the Ball was in aid of SASH, the FemDom Ball’s charity of choice this year. They offer free, non-judgemental support for improving your sexual health in the London area.
So, we all dug into our purses (or rather, the submissives did) and got raffle tickets to win some one-of-a-kind prizes. Bondara donated two mystery bundles of bondage goodies that would be at home in any dungeon. And, from the choruses of oohs and ahhs and the delighted presentation of items, our winners were thrilled with their prizes.
Several Dommes got lucky, with one lady at our table winning a €495 voucher for a boudoir shoot in Paris. Other prizes included handmade canes, massive dildos and all-inclusive tickets for The International Femdom Summit in Bucharest. Once all the raffle prizes had been distributed, Countess Diamond concluded the Ball by thanking everyone for coming. Then, it was time to prepare for the After Party…
We didn’t go to the shenanigans after the Ball (maybe next year 😉), but from what we’ve seen on Madame Caramel’s Twitter, it was some after-party; Someone even left their knickers behind!
As always, it was a delight to be invited by Madame Caramel to attend this fantastic event. It was a truly unforgettable experience to share a space with such powerful, confident, self-assured women supporting each other. We can’t wait to go again next year!
If you’re looking for a space to explore your own FemDom desires, rent either of Madame Caramel’s suites in Bayswater or London.
