3 Kinky Christmas Sex Positions

Were you naughty this Christmas? Time for punishing pleasure! Take out your shopping stress on a sub, we’ve got three positions that’ll make you wish the bells never end.

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How Do I Do It?

To truss up your Christmas turkey they might have to stretch first to get limber. The aim is for their forearms to be parallel to their calves, legs spread eagle. If they can’t raise their knees to their chest lying down, try sitting in a straddle position (yes, like a teddy bear). Raise their ankles up to be restrained, then you can gently ease them onto their back. Use whatever you’re comfortable with to tie them up, whether that’s bondage rope, tape or using a spreader bar – don’t forget to have a pair of bondage scissors on standby for quick release!

With their legs wide and high, their holes will be nice and accessible for fisting, plus they’ll get an unobstructed view of your whole hand disappearing into their giblets. Remember to build up slowly to using your whole fist, and don’t skimp on the fisting lube! Before play begins wearing something like a butt plug can act as a stretching warm-up, or giving the fistee an orgasm or two can relax their muscles making it easier to go from fingers to fist.

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How Do I Do It?

Inspired by electro sex this sitting bondage position is easier to hold than others. Start by having the submissive sit down as though they were going to sit cross-legged on the floor. Bring their ankles as close as they can to their thighs, this might sound familiar to the butterfly position for waxing. When they’re comfortable bind their legs with rope or tape. Restraining their arms behind their back is optional, and you can use hand cuffs if they’re not comfortable with having their chest bound.

The position leaves their thighs spread wide so you’re not limited on choice of sex toy, even a full sized massage wand like a Doxy. Wands in this position are pretty magic; not only is it perfect for forced orgasm play as your sub can’t escape stimulation, the openness allows you to hold the wand head against a butt plug, preferably metal, for serious internal vibrations.

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How Do I Do It?

Start simply with the receiving partner stood up with their legs parted – you could even use a spreader bar here! If you’re using hand cuffs or restraints, tie their hands behind their back while they’re stood up. Then the receiver should bend over, leaving plenty of room for vaginal or anal sex. For extra support the giver can hold their hips or arms as they thrust.

Famous for whipping naughty revellers at Christmas, no Krampus would be complete without a flogger or cane! A cheeky spank or swat during sex gives the receiver a rush of endorphins, so there’s no excuse to shy away from impact play. Even though the receiver is faced away from their partner, their nips, clits, or cocks don’t have to left out in the cold. Nipple clamps provide a delightful pinch that will tug at their teats with every thrust, plus if you opt for clamps connected to a ball gag it’ll give this bondage position a subtle seasonal reindeer vibe.

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Not For You?

Here at Bondara, we know everyone likes to knock boots, so we are working to ensure everyone is represented on our website.

We are committed to inclusivity and diversity. So, we are depicting a range of genders and sexual orientations in our Sex Position blog posts, including straight, gay, lesbian and gender-neutral couples. All instructions will detail how to make our sex positions work for any relationships.

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