Why Bondage is ‘Bound’ to Make You a Better Lover

For the uninitiated, the term ‘bondage’ may evoke images of a leather-clad Dominatrix wielding a whip. Not something everyone would find appealing! Really, bondage covers a wide spectrum of emotional, sensual and imaginative possibilities. It’s also the perfect way to inject more passion into your sexual relationship and make you a better lover.

So, what does it involve? Bondage is the art of tying, binding, or restraining a person using ropes, cuffs, bondage tape and more. It’s for the sexual, aesthetic or psychological pleasure of the parties involved.

The main feature of sexual bondage is that the restrained person surrenders control and is unable to interfere with sexual activity. Often, it is used as part of a sex game or sexual fantasy.

How Can Bondage Make You a Better Lover?

Increase Sexual Intimacy with your Partner

Let go and allow yourself to be vulnerable. There is no better way to do this than by voluntarily surrendering control to your partner. Restraint demonstrates total trust in your partner, and being in the restrainer shows you are deserving of this trust. The highly intimate act can have a powerful effect on your relationship and deepen the emotional bonds between you.

Removes Guilty Feelings towards Sex       

Some people experience guilt towards having sex which stops them from letting go and enjoying themselves fully. Allowing your partner to take control helps to overcome these feelings as you are powerless to resist!

Explore Your Sensual Side

Bondage allows you to show your partner your sensual side. You can use ropes to gently caress your partner while tying and untying, or use a flogger to stroke and tickle. If you want to up the ante and drive your partner wild with pleasure, simply tie knots in the ropes and use them to rub against your partner’s sweet spots…

Encourages Open Communication

The best lovers know how to express what they like and what they don’t. Bondage is a great way for couples to practice this open communication. Pushing your pleasure to the limit requires you both to be honest and respectful. Often, couples will agree safe words beforehand so that the submissive partner can choose the intensity and when it stops.

Discover Yourself and Your Lover

Acting out different scenarios and taking on different roles – such as slave and master – can be highly erotic and may reveal new sides of your sexual personality. By playing a role, you and your partner will learn a lot about yourselves and each other – knowledge is power when it comes to being a great lover!

Diffuse Relationship Niggles

As much as we love our partners, we all have moments when they drive us crazy! Left unsaid, little relationship niggles can lead to resentment which is the ultimate ‘great sex killer.’ Bondage can be a great way of diffusing these issues, communicating positively and injecting some humour at the same time. Next time your partner does something to annoy you simply tell them ‘I’m going to get out my spanking paddle and deal with you later’! not only will this diffuse the situation by preventing a full scale row, you can use it to start your ‘kiss and make up’ session later…

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