Men’s Masturbation: A 5-Finger Guide

‘To lube or not to lube?’ is one of the many questions regarding men’s masturbation, but that’s just the tip of the proverbial iceberg…

May has cum. So we’re busting a nut to bring you the hottest male auto-erotica for the first part of our Masturbation Month series.

You might have heard of the G-spot, but what about the P-spot and the F-spot?! And why is masturbation plus anal play the holy grail of wanks?

You might call it ‘self-love’ or ‘beating your meat’. Either way, it’s vital to push the boundaries of solo satisfaction for a fappier relationship with yourself. With a rise of sex toys for men that means there’s never been a better opportunity to test-drive these modern pleasures and probe deeper into what makes you twitch.

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Living on the Edge

The ‘Orgasmic Imperative’ (Potts, 2002) is when getting to the finish line is the only goal. But what if you enjoy the marathon of sex itself? If so, you may enjoy the climax control technique of ‘Edging‘.

Edging is the difficult yet very rewarding sexual discipline of stopping direct stimulation at the peak of climax. Repeat this as many times as you can before simmering down just before boiling point. Challenge yourself and see how many rounds you can go! Edging is all about indulging in those pre-orgasmic sensations, so sit back and relax; we promise it has a HUGE pay-off!

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With an emphasis on male pleasure rather than focusing on the happy ending, this revolutionary masturbation technique is taking men’s sexual wellness by storm. Not only does Edging grant you extended periods of pleasure, but it also trains the body and mind to overcome premature ejaculation.

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Redefining the ‘Posh Wank’

In the same vein, the male pleasure boom right now is committed to upgrading your hand shandy…

No longer does sheathing your erection in a condom before solo play qualify as ‘posh’. Not when the future of fancy wanks comes from these award-winning engineers. Fleshlight, Rocks-Off and more put you in the driving seat of your quest for high-performance pleasure. Some men’s sex toys even give you feedback on your fapping!

But for innovative men’s pleasure that’s a little more low-key, why not consider TENGA? This trailblazing Japanese company offers a spacey range of injection moulded sex toys to skyrocket your solo satisfaction!

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Gently Does It

Mum says, “playing with your willy too often will make it fall off!” Well, this isn’t quite the case. However, squeezing too hard during masturbation can cause some damage to the nerve endings in your schlong. Don’t worry, it’s not permanent problem! Just give your wrist a rest for a few days.

But you deserve better than a numb dong. So, make the switch from the Vulcan death grip to the penetrative realism of a masturbator. Changing up how you choke the chicken can help to sustain sexual sensations and support life-long satisfaction.

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P-spot Perfection

A massively positive outcome of the male pleasure revolution is the stigma-smashing new approach to anal stimulation. No longer solely the preserve of gay men; butt stuff is now firmly on the agenda with anal sex toys for all sexual identities and preferences.

Some straight guys might have stumbled across the pros of pegging or the effectiveness of prostate milking – and for good reason! Growing popularity of prostate play is a testament to the life-changing experience of an anal orgasm.

The prostate, or P-spot, is a walnut-sized gland about two inches inside the male rectum at the 6 o’clock position. Unlocking the power of this little guy bestows tremendous rewards for those who dare enter. Sure, butt stuff may feel unusual at first. However, when faced with the best solo orgasm of your life, you might want to reconsider.

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Some lucky women may indulge in the multi-orgasmic effect of G-spot stimulation but girls don’t get to have all the fun. Mind-blowing multiple orgasms are on the menu for men too! When the P-spot is in play, it’s even possible to have orgasm without touching your penis at all. It’s true! The anal orgasm is a full-body eruption of pleasure just waiting to be explored.

Mastery of solo ass play takes time, patience and a willingness to understand your body better. So, with a host of divine prostate massagers to explore at Bondara, there’s something to train every butthole!

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The Male Clitoris AKA the F-spot

The frenulum, AKA the ‘Banjo String’, is the sensitive elastic band of tissue connecting the glans to the shaft of the penis. Sometimes known as the ‘male clitoris’, this landing strip of nerve endings can provide wankers with the power to trigger orgasms like no other! There are all sorts of erogenous ‘spots’ within the anatomy of male pleasure just waiting for your tentative touch.

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Engage the Erogenous!

We hate to break it to you, but the traditional idea of men as the pleasure ‘giver’ means that your erogenous zones have been overlooked. Science says that male nipple stimulation lights up the same area in the brain as the genitals. So indeed, it’s not just women who get off on bodily touching.

Regardless of gender, ‘X’ marks the spot for the soles of your feet, scalp, armpits, neck, and nipples on the map of the erogenous body. These bodily bolt-ons lend an extra-sensory dimension to solo and partnered play. So try to take the tender approach to unlock untold opportunities for sensual satisfaction.

So, here’s a challenge for you. Next time you’re going for gold, try your hand at rubbing, pulling and clamping on your areola and nips for a full-body boner. Tugging on these sensitive spots sweetens the pot when combined with the pleasures of the penis and anal play!

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