Sex Position: The Gear Shift

No one likes being static! Shift your sex life into high gear with this intensely penetrating position that’s perfect for anal play.

How Do I Do It?

You don’t have to worry about thrust issues with this sex position! The receiver should get comfortable and pop a pillow under their hips. Placing a pillow under the receiver’s hips allows the giver to press their little love button (the G or P-spot). Help them reach the finish line with an explosive ending – this angle works for any couple!

The giver should kneel before the receiver and slide into the driver’s seat, holding the receiver’s leg up. If you’re slightly less flexible and your partner doesn’t mind being close to your tootsies, you can also rest your leg against their chest. You only need enough room for the receiver to lie back comfortably so you can explore where works best for you – on the sofa, in bed, or even on the kitchen floor?

Why Should I Try This Sex Position?

This sex position gives you an all-access pass to your partner’s pleasure. Both of you can see how every movement accelerates your partner’s satisfaction. If you’re looking for a beginner-friendly anal position, then this is for you; the angle allows the giver to control the speed and depth of their thrusts completely. As you’ll have a full frontal view of your partner, you can communicate precisely how every inch makes you feel.

Drive them wild while you rev your engine with deep, pounding thrusts. Or, adjust your cruise control for a slow sensual drive – Perfect for those who like to be filled to the MAX.

Make It More Orgasmic!

If you want to go full throttle, then this position is ideal for trying sex toys. While the giver may be in the driver’s seat, the receiver is hands-free so that you can go to town on your pleasure zones with a massage wand or a bullet vibrator. Fancy tweaking the controls? Give nipple toys a go!

If you both want to benefit from a buzz, get a couple’s vibrator for a mindblowing motoring experience. Or, if you want to add something extra to your cockpit, why not try a cock ring or cock sleeve for climax control. Not only do they help you go longer and stronger, but they also can add inches to your gear stick so you can hit all those tight corners. 

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Not For You?

Here at Bondara, we know everyone likes to knock boots, so we are working to ensure everyone is represented on our website.

We are committed to inclusivity and diversity. So, we are depicting a range of genders and sexual orientations in our Sex Position blog posts, including straight, gay, lesbian and gender-neutral couples. All instructions will detail how to make our sex positions work for any relationship.

Larissa Patience