Get set, spin! Take a raunchy ride with this sex position and see what finishes first, you or your dirty washing!
How Do I Do It?
Have loads of fun with this sex position is accessible for beginners or enthusiasts. Find a place to perch – we chose a washing machine, but you can do this on the edge of your bed, the sofa, or anywhere you feel comfortable! The giving partner sits down, feet on the floor, and leans back, putting their weight on their palms for support. Once they’re comfortable, the receiving partner sits on their lap, facing away from the giver.
The receiver then places their hands on their partner’s inner thigh and lifts themselves with their tiptoes. If you’re feeling more daring (and have the upper body strength to match), flex those core muscles and take your feet off the floor. If you need a little more support during a vigorous spin, the giving partner can hold on to the other’s waist to help lift them up and down.
Why Should I Try This Sex Position?
The Big Load works for both vaginal and anal sex, letting everyone play in a way that encourages the receiver to take full control of the pace and depth of penetration. It’s ideal if the receiver isn’t generally on top. Plus, with your hands free you have all sorts of opportunities to get handsy – from teasing tips and tickling nips, to spanking and hair pulling, every kind of stimulation is at your fingertips. If you do decide to follow our serving suggestion and ride the spin cycle, you can let the machine do the work!
It’s a fun position that allows you to drop your inhibitions too; worried about a goofy O-face? Your partner won’t see! They’ll either be too busy fondling themselves or watching your arse bounce in their lap. All that said, if you wanted to do this position in front of a mirror and watch your partner unfold well… I can’t blame you 😉
Make It More Orgasmic!
Honestly, you’re spoilt for choice when it comes to The Big Load. Sure, sitting on a washing machine can jimmie your delicates, but with your hands free it’d be a shame to let the chance go to waste.
The receiver’s chest is open for sensual stimulation, and nipple toys are a great place to start! A pair of suckers will heighten teasing touches, whether toying with yourself or your partner. Or, take it up a notch with foreplay vibrators, or strokers to focus buzzing bliss on their external erogenous zones.
If you’ve got your hands full, don’t forget some intense internal titillation. A vibrating cock ring or strap-on (hollow or strapless, depending on partner) will hit those inner hot spots for orgasm enticing friction.
Still feeling adventurous? Dust off your roleplay fantasies with french maid costumes and feather ticklers!
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We are committed to inclusivity and diversity. So, we are depicting a range of genders and sexual orientations in our Sex Position blog posts, including straight, gay, lesbian and gender-neutral couples. All instructions will detail how to make our sex positions work for any relationship.
