Don’t play heart to get! Have a heart of gold and promise your partner deeply penetrating pleasure… You can’t beat the pulse-pounding pleasure of the intimate Cross Your Heart sex position.
How Do I Do It?
Find a surface that you are comfortable lying on, like the edge of the bed, a desk, or even the kitchen counter – just make sure it’s at a good height for your partner to have access 😉
Have the receiver lay down, raise their legs in the air and cross them. Then, the giver can take hold of the receiver’s legs and go to town! While this will help stabilise you and your partner, it will also mean the receiver can’t wiggle away in the throes of passion.
If the receiver is reclining on a surface lower than the giver’s waist height, you may wish to elevate their hips, either yourself or with a pillow, so they can hit all those hard-to-reach spots! Have a look at our bondage furniture and sex swings & slings for help maintaining this sex position.
Why Should I Try This Sex Position?
Crossing your partner’s legs creates pressure that can feel oh so fulfilling! Pushing down on the receiver’s lower stomach can stimulate the G-spot externally, and crossing your legs achieves a similar effect. It creates more friction and encourages the receiver to clench their core, creating a tighter, fuller feeling that feels fantastic for both partners. It’s very similar to the feeling of wearing a butt plug while engaging in penetrative sex.
Positioning your partner on their back with the giver is standing allows for much more stability and deeper driving thrusts that hit all your hot spots. Plus, this sex position provides the giver with a front-row seat to your pleasure – they won’t be able to help but wear their heart on their sleeve!
Make It Even More Orgasmic
If you want to get your playmate’s heart racing, try adding kinky accessories like nipple clamps and ball gags! Or, if you want them in a blissful bind, use bondage restraints to keep your partner in place while you work your orgasmic magic!
Add to that delicious full feeling and explore double penetration with a butt plug or a double cock ring. Maybe you want to get a little handsy – grab, stroke and spank the receiver’s bottom!
This saucy sex position is also super customisable – don a strap-on if you’re a same-sex couple or fancy a spot of pegging.
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