If you’re looking to boost your love life or find a sensual way to put the spark back into your relationship, tantric massage is an incredible way to deeply connect with your partner and your own body.
In this tantric massage guide, we’ll show you how to give a tantric massage and five tantric tips for improving your sex life!
What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantric massage is a sensual type of massage which arouses sexual energy to achieve a spiritual connection with both yourself and another person.
This slow practice can incorporate yoni massage (vaginal massage) and lingam massage (massaging the penis).
And while reaching orgasm isn’t necessarily the aim, many people discover a wide range of benefits that aid their love life:
- Relieves stress, anxiety and depression
- Enhances your sexual stamina
- Explores your sacred sexuality
- Improves your self-esteem
- Improve your body confidence
- Enhances intimacy with your partner
- Helps alleviate premature ejaculation
- Promotes body healing
How to Give A Tantric Massage
Follow the techniques below to give a mind-blowing erotic massage:
1. Prepare Your Setting
It’s not always easy to get in the mood for a sensual massage, especially if you’ve had a stressful day.
Before you start your tantric massage, get your space ready by lighting candles to create a soft, romantic ambience. Play a little mood music and place some cosy sheets on the floor. This will make a relaxing, comfortable setting so you can fully unwind.
2. Take A Shower
Taking a steamy shower with your partner begins to gradually build up sexual energy…
Take turns to cleanse each other but just ensure you avoid sexual interaction during this time. This is because when you delay sexual gratification, you get to experience the explosive release later on!
3. Use Eye Contact
Start your massage by sitting facing each other. Maintain eye contact for 5-10 minutes to build an intimate connection.
It may seem awkward at first, but after a few minutes, you can begin to use gentle touches and strokes on your partner’s body. It’s a fun and intimate challenge to see if you can keep eye contact during the massage!
4. Apply Massage Oil to Your Hands
Place a little massage oil in your hands, rub them together, and place them along the lower back of your partner, gently massaging the buttocks and moving slowly up to the top of the back. lower neck and shoulders.
5. Use Feather Strokes on Erogenous Zones
Shift to gentle feather strokes over the erogenous zones. Start slowly, moving up and down the body, before intensifying your hand movements. Gradually increase the speed of your movements to help take your lover to the edge of orgasm and back again. Finish with erotically charged movements to give your partner an explosive ending they’ll relish for a long time.
Now, Start Using This Tantric Massage Guide to Give a Mind-Blowing Body Massage!
Now you understand how to give a tantric massage, it’s time to put those techniques to good use…
Start using tantra massage today to uncover a world of extreme euphoria!
Massage Must-Haves
Japanese ‘Nuru’ is an erotic massage technique where partners slide naked across one another using a slippery smooth massage glide for intense tactile sensations. And the Nuru Body2Body Massage Gel brings this ancient sensual practice straight to your bedroom!
Spreadable and soothing, the non-absorbent formula allows long-lasting, gliding sensations. Body to body, each touch is intensified for a profoundly erotic experience!
This 2-in-1 Massage Candle by Shunga is exactly what your sensual foreplay sessions need. The sweet soothing scent of strawberry wine sets the mood while the wax transforms into a healthy, nourishing oil…
The jar is both practical and pretty with an elegant pouring spout. So, drip the scented oil onto your partner’s skin and enjoy the experience of warm, sensual massages!
Experience your pleasure potential with Bijoux Indiscrets’ SLOW SEX Nipple Play Gel. Perfect for erogenous massage and sensation play, this cooling gel will provide you and your partner with mind-blowing thrills!
To play, apply a thin layer to each nipple to enhance every touch. When kissed, its cooling effect transfers to the lips and beyond for amplified arousal with every smooch!
Savour every inch of your sweetheart as you drizzle this luscious, lickable deluxe massage oil by Bijoux Indiscrets.
Excellent for turning up the heat during foreplay, the kissable wild strawberry and honey flavour tempts the tastebuds. Meanwhile, the tingling effect warms on contact with your partner’s skin for radiating pleasure and deeper intimacy.
Or try a feather tickler for a more glamorous tease!
At 16 inches long, this luxurious Ostrich feather strokes your partner’s skin to arouse their senses for a truly decadent massage.
About the author:
Erica Suarez-Hillingdon is a sex therapist and expert on everything related to tantra, tantric sex, and tantric massage. She is the editor at Karma Tantric, London’s premier tantric massage agency. She specialises in helping men, women and couples unleash their sexual potential through her tantra teachings.
