May has cum, so let’s mark Masturbation Month by exploring the kinkier side of self-love…
Face it – basic masturbation can get a little samey. And not everyone into BDSM is in a relationship, and even those who are coupled up may not be with someone kinky!
So, spice up your solo play with nine kinky ways to add some flavour to your fap! From secret public play to edging, stretching, and even electro sex – discover what makes that dirty mind tick for alone times with extra impact.
1. Show Some Restraint
A solo shibari session may seem fiddly, but you needn’t be Houdini to enjoy a tight bind while-U-wank!
You should probably keep at least one of your hands-free for Self-Bondage – unless you have talented toes! – but focus on binding your legs, breasts and genitals to indulge in delightful deep pressure as you play with a sex toy, such as a vibrating wand massager (if you’re power-hungry!) or suction dildo for simple yet satisfying pleasure.
Bondara has plenty of bondage rope options, from pre-tied rope restraints for bondage beginners to soft and colourful cotton bondage rope or traditional jute hemp rope for advanced riggers.
From the Tobutsuru hip harness to the Fotomo self-tie, there are a bunch of brilliant self-bondage tutorials online. So, practice your rope tying techniques for sensual satisfaction, but remember SAFETY FIRST! Always keep rope bondage scissors on stand-by and ensure you can always escape.
2. Spank Yourself!
BDSM is a mind game, and the limit is your imagination. So, be your own Dom(me)!
Straddle the armchair or bend over the bed as you grind against your favourite vibrator or masturbator. Then whip yourself into a state of bliss as you inflict sharp or thuddy sensations to your ass and thighs for bittersweet satisfaction. Alternatively, try spanking yourself while riding a suction dildo for a thwacking good ride!
From spanking canes, crops and whips to floggers and spanking paddles – Bondara has plenty of impact toys to match your deviousness!
3. Explore Every Sensation
Add erogenous euphoria to your alone time as you stroke a feather tickler across your sweet spots and settle into a solo sesh’.
Try goosebump-inducing Temperature Play as you warm and cool a glass dildo or a stainless steel sex toy to add a spine-tingling dimension to solo penetration. And if you have a thing for wax, light up your self-love with a bondage candle to turn up the heat with every drop.
As you approach orgasm, you can even swipe an ice cube across your nipples for a thrilling finale! Brrrr!
4. Stay Chaste for Bigger O’s
Sometimes, there’s nothing sexier than being told ‘no’. As soon as we can’t have it, we want it!
So, flip masturbation on its head and experience the pleasurable torture of Orgasm Denial with a chastity belt or cock cage.
Perfect for power play, take (or lose!) control of your sexual release as you watch porn locked into your chastity device for the ultimate denial. Then, whip it off when you can’t take it anymore – earth-moving orgasms await!
5. Take Your Pleasure Out in Public
If you’re a sexy extrovert or get a kick out of getting away with it… Go about your day with added orgasms with our wearable vibrators – so long as you manage to hide the smile on your face!
Perfect for discreet Public Play, take pleasure in your stride with a remote control love egg or jiggle balls nestled deep inside. Or slip into some vibrating knickers for guaranteed good vibes as you spice up your supermarket shop in secret satisfaction!
6. Put Some ZING in Your Thing!
Satisfying BDSM never goes with the flow. So, put some ZING in your thing with Electro Play. Electrosex toys switch up solo play with lightning intensity… From a tingling buzz to throbbing pulsations – supercharge your stimulation and show your sexy self watt for!
Ever heard of Ghost Fucking? Submit to spine-tingling muscular contractions for hands-free thrusting and orgasms so intense, that they’ll cause a power outage. So, explore our Sex Sparks range with electrified rabbit vibrators, buzzing butt plugs, conductive cock caps and more for shockingly good value.
7. Sharpen the Senses
Sensory Deprivation hones your remaining senses for mindfully amazing masturbation.
Our selection of blindfolds, hoods and gimp masks intensify every touch. So, surprise yourself as you deprive the eyes and explore your erogenous zones with your favourite sex toy for a slow, sensual swell of pleasure with every sensation – knee-trembling orgasms await!
8. Push the Bounds of Pleasure
Expand your horny horizons and stretch the limits of your imagination with the introduction of extra-large sex toys to masturbation.
Taking more than you ever thought you could is ecstasy for those who want to be stuffed full. So, explore The Monsters range and sink onto your chosen girthy guy to feel the sensational stretch as you take every inch – just remember to use plenty of lube!
Try getting sucked in and stretched out by The Kraken. This thick tentacle temptation has a tapered shaft that swells for gigantic girth with every inch – perfect for beginners who are new to a stretching kink.
9. Live on the Edge
Edging is all about timing, so don’t think you’ll get this done quickly, but this masturbation marathon promises powerful orgasms. So, focus on feeling good and take your time. Then get yourself as close to cumming as possible, then STOP!
Now breathe and remember that patience is a virtue. Once relaxed, start again and repeat the process as many times as you desire until you want to climax. This may seem a bit mean, but trust us when we say it can lead to some explosive endings!
Suitable for everyone who gets a kick out of suspense, Edging and Orgasm Control can be enjoyed in many ways. If you’re looking to incorporate it into your personal pleasure for the first time, we recommend a bullet vibrator or masturbator. These top sex toys add a smidge more stimulation than you’ll get plundering down under on your own and keep things simple so you can stop and start with ease! And if you aren’t really sure where to start, you can use an online orgasm controller like Edgemeplease.com.
We hope you’ve found a masturbation technique that’ll tickle your kinky pickle…
Sound off in the comments below to let us know which one got you hot and bothered!
Have a FAPPY MASTURBATION MONTH, and stay tuned for the return of Confessions of a Wanker next week.
