Foreplay and Why You Should Be Doing It!

There is an endless list of excuses for bad sex, but most of the time if you find yourself feeling unsatisfied in the bedroom then it is probably down to a lack of foreplay.


Foreplay is defined as the sexual activity that precedes intercourse, so in other words it’s the bit before you have sex where you kiss and fondle and get all hot and bothered.

Foreplay is beneficial to your sex life in a lot of ways. If you and your partner take your time to get each other well and truly turned on then the sex that follows is guaranteed to be much more passionate and orgasm is much more likely. Foreplay is also the perfect opportunity to explore your partner’s body, get to know what they enjoy and what turns them on. This is a great way to learn what your partner enjoys and how they like to be touched.


Foreplay is different every time. Sometimes it can be fun and flirty and other times it can be teasing and light hearted or even intense and passionate. No matter what you prefer, foreplay is an intimate act that involves being close and passionate with your partner. So it can help to improve and deepen the intimacy in your relationship.

It is important to realise that foreplay isn’t always a long process. It can take hours or it can take minutes. It can be a long soak in the bathtub and then a full body massage or it can be a lusty glance and a suggestive kiss on the neck. There is no defining action that is called foreplay.

It can be soft touches and caresses, a shoulder rub or a massage, even simply kissing and holding hands. As long as it increases the sexual tension, she’s feeling slick and he’s rock hard – then you’re doing it right.

If you find yourself at a loss for foreplay ideas then why not consider sex toys? There are lots of ways sex toys can be used to enhance your foreplay. For example, massaging wands or a mini massager can be used to relax your partner with sensual vibrations or tease their sweet spots for amazing stimulation.


You could then use a warming massage oil to enhance the romantic atmosphere and heat things up between you both. There are also finger massager toys that slip onto your finger so you can stroke and tickle your partner in all their favourite spots.

If you enjoy more fun and flirty play then you could try out a kinky sex game. There are loads of dice games and board games available that will have you feeling creative and often a bit naughty. Many games include kinky dares and forfeits that will have you both working up an appetite.


Playing a sex game is ideal for a confident couple who are up for some adventurous fun or want to try out something different.

One of the classic foreplay accessories is body paint. You can get body paint in a wide range of flavours and it is an amazing way of spicing up your sex life. Just use the brush to paint a trail of delicious body paint down your partner’s body and then follow the line with your tongue. The soft touches and warm breath on their skin can be an amazing turn on.

If body paint isn’t enough to satisfy your hunger then why not try edible underwear? Yes, it does exist and no, it doesn’t taste bad.

If you are interested in some light domination or bondage play then try out a blindfold for feather teaser whip during foreplay. These accessories are ideal for light stimulation and are ideal for introducing toys into your sex life. Feather whips can create soft and tingly sensations that your partner will love and if that’s not to their tastes then you can use the whip for some sexy spanking.

If you take your time to build up the sexual tension and arousal in both yourself and your partner, then the sex you enjoy afterwards is guaranteed to be so much better.


As long as it turns you on then there is no limit to what toys, actions or games you can explore during foreplay.

  1. chris
    June 17, 2014 at 7:42 pm

    wouldlove to win this

    • tony cunliffe
      tony cunliffe
      June 24, 2014 at 12:08 am

      hmmm tasty tasty bondage mmmmm

  2. Cai
    June 17, 2014 at 7:56 pm

    Would give me a chance to try out new things 😉

  3. Danae
    June 17, 2014 at 9:09 pm

    I hope I’ll win! I never had a sex-related game, and I’d love to try this one.

  4. John Menzies
    John Menzies
    June 18, 2014 at 11:35 am

    Getting excited already

  5. elaine dale
    elaine dale
    June 18, 2014 at 11:40 am

    my husband is registered disabled so it is difficult to have a sex life so anything to enhance it would be great.

  6. lisa sargent
    lisa sargent
    June 18, 2014 at 11:42 am

    To spice my 11 year marriage up 🙂

  7. melanie stirling
    melanie stirling
    June 18, 2014 at 3:41 pm

    We need new ideas,we’ve been together for 25 years!

  8. Sallyanne Gooch
    Sallyanne Gooch
    June 18, 2014 at 6:32 pm

    I’m a new mum, enough said.

  9. Monika S
    Monika S
    June 18, 2014 at 11:47 pm

    perfect way to build a tention between partners – i need that!

  10. claire griffiths
    claire griffiths
    June 19, 2014 at 9:10 am

    always up for spicing things up

  11. Laura
    June 19, 2014 at 2:41 pm

    Im usually the submissive one wit my bf in the bedroom. We hav both wanted a role reversal so this game could help to to bring out the dom in me 🙂 yes please n thanku!xx

  12. trise
    June 21, 2014 at 12:58 am

    would love to win this

  13. Ian
    June 21, 2014 at 7:42 am

    Looks like a lot of fun

  14. Phil
    June 21, 2014 at 6:19 pm

    Looks like fun!

  15. gabor
    June 21, 2014 at 7:36 pm

    Wow cool stuff. Woyld be cool to win it 😀

  16. Jas
    June 23, 2014 at 8:53 am

    looks a sure way to spice things up a bit, hope we win x

  17. Geoff Blakey
    Geoff Blakey
    June 23, 2014 at 1:44 pm

    Would love to win this, hours of fun to be had & being Dominant my sub & I would put it to real good use.

  18. shaun
    June 25, 2014 at 8:02 pm


  19. Jessica Rabbit
    Jessica Rabbit
    June 25, 2014 at 8:33 pm

    I love the waterslide analogy!

  20. tina
    June 26, 2014 at 6:59 pm

    let the fun begin and hours of it

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    Miss JJs bitch
    June 26, 2014 at 8:10 pm

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  22. Suzi Hulbert
    Suzi Hulbert
    June 26, 2014 at 9:32 pm

    Because I can never have enough of all this stuff 🙂

  23. abbee june
    abbee june
    June 28, 2014 at 3:35 pm

    This would be ideal to spice up things in the bedroom, my partner and i enjoy each other , when it comes to confidence we slightly lack in, so this would be fun to try new things and get involved with one another without alcohol being involved.

  24. Tequila Rose
    Tequila Rose
    June 28, 2014 at 3:35 pm

    I should win this because I need something to spice up my summer vacation!

  25. Debra Hainsworth
    Debra Hainsworth
    June 28, 2014 at 9:14 pm

    great prize

  26. sammy
    June 29, 2014 at 10:28 pm

    Would love to win this for the excitement , I’m exploring so many new toys right now so this would be a cherry on the top !

  27. Rachel
    June 30, 2014 at 2:21 am

    Board game use could be spice of life.

  28. Janine Atkin
    Janine Atkin
    June 30, 2014 at 4:18 pm

    My boyfriend would love for me to win this!

  29. Neil Waterman
    Neil Waterman
    June 30, 2014 at 6:14 pm

    Hope i win this

  30. kel preston
    kel preston
    June 30, 2014 at 6:25 pm

    Why should foreplay always be aimed at women? Sometimes men need that warm up too! Hope to win to bring that old saying “two can play that game” 😉

  31. Christina S
    Christina S
    June 30, 2014 at 7:28 pm

    This would be great

  32. PS
    June 30, 2014 at 7:35 pm

    Looks fun

  33. Colin Anderson
    Colin Anderson
    June 30, 2014 at 7:41 pm

    i need something to spice up our sex life

  34. Bazza
    June 30, 2014 at 7:47 pm

    Well this would be Friday night sorted

  35. Michelle
    June 30, 2014 at 8:20 pm

    Looks fun

  36. Peter
    June 30, 2014 at 8:45 pm

    Our favourite pastime in a board game ? Fabulous !

  37. Property Of Potter
    Property Of Potter
    July 1, 2014 at 12:30 am

    My husband and I don’t play enough games together. We could really use a little bit of unique, sexy fun in our lives right now.

  38. Beck
    July 1, 2014 at 12:35 am

    The tweet was from the last giveaway. Doesn’t show the correct prize.

    Games are fun to play together. We are always in need of couples time.

  39. Karen Lowe
    Karen Lowe
    July 1, 2014 at 2:12 pm

    Sounds like a fab prize 😉

  40. Jen Lloyd
    Jen Lloyd
    July 1, 2014 at 4:50 pm

    Would love a bit of help in this department 😛

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