We asked, you replied with your kinkiest answers to our BDSM Survey. We’ve got some leather-clad results to share.
Whip, floggers, and chains – oh my! Let’s take a look at your deviant desires and darkest sex dungeons…
Everybody’s Kinky!
Let’s take a good look at you all 🥵
Male, female, straight or not, there’s a good spread of kinksters amongst Bondara customers.
High fives all around! Specifically with this hand paddle.
Switchy sub Seeks Dom
Goodness, you’re a kinky bunch! But there’s a drastic shortage of Dom(me)s! Hopefully, the 41% of you that are switches don’t mind embracing your dominant side more often – unless some Doms out there would like to double up their daddy-ing… Especially as under half of all recipients only consider themselves novice kinksters.
Now your favourite fetishes and kinks are where it gets interesting.
Predictably being bound in restraints is a BDSM favourite (58%), completely outpacing everyone else. Might have to change the questions next year…
Impact (14%) and Sensation Play (12%) are complicated bedfellows, but for that one person who can’t decide between them, I understand your conflict.
Electro-stimulation, Feet, Watersports, Swinging, Maid Training, Pet Play, everybody has their yum.
There was even one female respondent whose favourite fetish is ‘Reverse Harem’.
Clean Up in the Handcuff Aisle…
When it comes to decking out your dungeon, you’re much more concerned with quality (63%) than anything else! And too right – no one wants something to snap in the middle of play.
Looks like the cost of living crisis is even affecting our kinks, as 21% of you rank price as the most important consideration when buying your BDSM gear. Given the hefty price of some specialist items, I’m not surprised. Hold on; I think I can hear my bank manager crying…
You also prefer function over form. Guess you’re all partial to the standard black leather aesthetic?
You’re also only buying for yourself (56%), and I hope that’s lucky subs getting to pick out their own restraints and cages.
What’s In Your BDSM Box?
A whopping 90.5% of you break out the toys when you’re being your best BDSM selves. As you can imagine, we’re tickled Bondara pink by this news!
There were some typical answers to why people mix bondage with sex toys, like getting more pleasure out of a session. But some people were really specific about what toys they use and why…
Satisfyer, because it gives the best forced orgasms
Vibrators are your go-to pleasure products at 33%, and specifically, 15.5% of you love your massage wands. But don’t let the graph fool you; there are plenty of people who like Riding Crops, Pin Wheels, and even busting out a Straitjacket when the mood strikes!
And one respondent has a grade-A suggestion for anyone who hasn’t had the opportunity to use a sex toy during a BDSM session.
If you’ve never used a massage wand as part of your harness and watched your sub squirm, you haven’t lived 😋
Thank you to everyone who filled in the survey!
Did you celebrate World BDSM Day (July 24th, mark your calendars for next year) by getting kinky?
Royce
August 2, 2023 at 8:00 pmLove to see a lot of people embracing their kinky side! Great to know I’m not alone