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Practical Pegging

For those who don’t know, pegging is when a lady wears a strap-on to anally penetrate her male partner and it’s becoming increasingly popular. (The term ‘pegging’ was submitted as a suggestion name for the practice when blogger Dan Savage pointed out there was no common name for a lady penetrating a man with a strap on.) 

Fantastic news. I wonder how many heterosexual men in particular out there would love to try anal sex but are worried about the stigma attached to it. That it makes you gay, or less of a man, or weak etc etc blah blah blah. All nonsense of course. If it’s safe and it feels good; do it. Not only that but the role reversal can be incredibly hot for the ladies.

Pegging is kind of a big step to take though if it’s your first foray into (receiving) anal. Why not start off small with some anal beads, or use an anal dildo by itself to see what you like?

Enjoyed the anal toys? Ready to try pegging? Brilliant.

Obvious I know, but you need to select a strap on that suits you both. It’s no good going for a super comfy harness for her then realising that it only accommodates massive dildos that are waaaaay too advanced for him this early in the game. Not only that but strapless dildos (try the Bend Over Boyfriend) are a great way for her to receive stimulation at the same time so they’re definitely worth considering. As are bullet vibrators. Pop one of those down the front of your harness for clitoral stimulation while you peg him!

Don’t forget the lube (Anal Lube Natural is a great thick lube that’s perfect for beginner’s anal play) and always start off slow. Try inserting a finger or two, or a toy and get used to the sensation before moving on to using a full sized dildo.

Girls, we don’t always have the thrusting rhythm that comes so naturally to guys, so a bit of practice will probably be needed too before you’re both enjoying pegging as a new addition to your sex life.

There are two main rules for pegging (the same as with any anal play):

1. Start slow.

2. Lube, lube, lube.

Once you’ve got those down, then it’s just a case of both parties being really open to the experience and having fun. Do you have pegging questions? Stories? Let us know in the comments below.

4 thoughts on “Practical Pegging”

  1. Why are all the strap ons and strapless strap ons penis sized?
    We girls have no hang ups about having a tiny cock
    I know my man wouldn’t let me near him with one of those enormous things and We would like to try
    Something with a Lady finger sized boy end and a nice big girl end perhaps even with clit or anal or OMG both!!!!!!!!!!!!

  2. We tried with me on all fours and couldn’t get properly comfortable to enjoy it. But with me on my back with my legs in the air and wide apart, my partner can push in deep and pump hard and fast into my ass with a big large cock sized strap on and it feels amazing. Plus to see her letcherous sexy smile while she’s pumping my ass and see her big boobs bouncing beautifully and have her stroking and pumping my cock at the same time gets me so incredibly excited. I grasp her thighs and pull her deeper into me as I get closer to cumming and I feel totally spoilt as I spurt my cum in the air. Amazing.

  3. hi feel the need to agree with this post.iv been ‘pegged’ a few times now and i cant deny that our most kinky nights have involved role reversal games.There is defo something in the anus that makes ejaculation more electric.Dont want to be too crude but the 1st time we tried,i ejaculated without even touching myself!The role-reversal games open up so many options for kinky nights in!How do couples stay spicey without this in their life!?So fellow men ditch the nerves and don the dress.buy your girl a strap on!!

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