Pegging for Beginners

‘Pegging’ is becoming increasingly popular – but do you know what it is?

Used to describe the act of the woman anally penetrating a man using a strap on, ‘pegging’ was given its name when blogger Dan Savage pointed out there was no real term to describe the kinky act. 

I wonder how many heterosexual men would love to try anal sex but are worried about the stigma attached to it? Of course, the outdated stereotypes are complete nonsense; if it’s safe and it feels good, do it. Not only that but the role reversal can be incredibly hot! 

Pegging is quite a big step to take if it’s your first foray into receiving anal. Why not start off small with some anal beads, or use an anal dildo during masturbation?

Enjoyed the anal toys? Ready to try pegging? Brilliant.

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Pegging Perfection!

It may sound obvious, but find a strap on that suits you both. It’s no good going for a super-comfy harness to then realise it only accommodates massive dildos. Strapless strap ons are a great way for her to receive stimulation during play and are definitely worth considering. Alternatively, pop a bullet vibe down the front of the harness for simultaneous clitoral stimulation to the wearer!

Don’t forget the lube and always start slow. Try inserting a finger or two, or a smaller toy, and get used to the sensation before progressing to a full-sized dildo. Pegging is a marathon, not a sprint!

There are two main rules for pegging (the same as with any anal play):

1. Start slow.

2. Lube, lube, lube.

Once you’ve got those down, then it’s just a case of both parties being really open to the experience and having fun!

Do you have pegging questions? Stories? Let us know in the comments below.

4 comments
  1. Hot Pussy
    Hot Pussy
    September 20, 2012 at 2:22 pm

    Why are all the strap ons and strapless strap ons penis sized?
    We girls have no hang ups about having a tiny cock
    I know my man wouldn’t let me near him with one of those enormous things and We would like to try
    Something with a Lady finger sized boy end and a nice big girl end perhaps even with clit or anal or OMG both!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  2. Happy being Pegged
    Happy being Pegged
    April 30, 2013 at 10:25 am

    We tried with me on all fours and couldn’t get properly comfortable to enjoy it. But with me on my back with my legs in the air and wide apart, my partner can push in deep and pump hard and fast into my ass with a big large cock sized strap on and it feels amazing. Plus to see her letcherous sexy smile while she’s pumping my ass and see her big boobs bouncing beautifully and have her stroking and pumping my cock at the same time gets me so incredibly excited. I grasp her thighs and pull her deeper into me as I get closer to cumming and I feel totally spoilt as I spurt my cum in the air. Amazing.

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  3. kinky couple
    kinky couple
    October 12, 2013 at 12:31 pm

    hi feel the need to agree with this post.iv been ‘pegged’ a few times now and i cant deny that our most kinky nights have involved role reversal games.There is defo something in the anus that makes ejaculation more electric.Dont want to be too crude but the 1st time we tried,i ejaculated without even touching myself!The role-reversal games open up so many options for kinky nights in!How do couples stay spicey without this in their life!?So fellow men ditch the nerves and don the dress.buy your girl a strap on!!

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