Down where it’s wetter, that makes it better, under the V! Leave your snorkel and mask at the beach and dive your partner’s depths with this sensational oral sex position.
How Do I Do It?
Pick your favourite flat spot; might be your bed, a sofa, or even the dining table – we won’t judge! The giver lies on their back with their head hanging off the edge of the bed. The receiver should stand with legs on either side of the giver’s head, and brace their hands on their partner’s torso. Giver, fix your hand on the receiver’s thighs, then lap, lick, kiss and suck them to climax.
The Deep Dive is easy to adjust should the receiver find it hard to stand for too long. Just have the giver shuffle down the bed, and the receiver can kneel over their lover’s face.
Why Should I Try It?
Ever had someone refuse to go down on you because “it makes their neck hurt”? Well, this sex position puts an end to that as it provides support to the giver without compromising access. Plus, the Deep Dive is versatile! Maybe your bed is really low, or your partner has long legs, this position is easy to adapt to suit everyone.
Speaking of adapting… how do you feel about the power balance in your relationship? The Deep Dive initially presents an equal dynamic between you both, each partner is able to govern pace and position. The receiver can rock their hips against the giver, the giver can pull the receiver closer to deepen sensations. However, standing over your partner is perfect for a domination scene! Try a little queening, a little facesitting, even facefucking to show the sub who’s boss. Flip a switch, and make the giver a Pleasure Dom holding their sub in place through many ruined orgasms.
Make It More Orgasmic!
Sure your mouth might be full, but this sex position lets both partners take advantage of their free hands. Make your sweet spots sing and accessorise with a buzz! Why not use a finger vibrator to pinpoint your pleasure? Either partner can make waves with a wand vibrator, and a male giver won’t be left hung out to dry if you break out a vibrating masturbator. If that’s not enough, up your oral abilities with a range of oral sex aids, from wearable vibrators, to flavoured lubes. Tempt your partner to twist their tongue around some crotchless knickers or backless briefs to spice things up
Now, if you really want to get wet, invest in a PVC bed sheet. It might not vibrate but this kinky essential will keep your mattress clean and your body filthy.
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