The UK is in the middle of a heatwave, but that doesn’t mean your sex life has to simmer down!
When it’s too warm to wank or snuggling with your SO is too sweaty, cool off this summer with chilled-out play and sex toys to beat the heat.
From taking a tantalising cold shower for two to perking up your privates with a chill-do, enjoy pleasure despite the hot weather with these cool tips and toys for a satisfying summer…
Shower Sex
Cold showers are known for keeping the horn’ at bay, but in these sizzlin’ temperatures, a blast of cool water can have the opposite outcome!
Overheating is the assassin of arousal, as we can quickly feel floppy and flustered when passions arise. A stimulating cold shower keeps you (and your lover) cool as you get down n’ dirty. Not to mention how sexy water looks dripping from hardened nipples and other erect body parts…
The shower is the perfect spot for solo sex, too. So, stick a suction cup dildo to the tiles and get buck wild. Or mount a masturbator for a hands-off hump for one. Afterall, clean-up is a cinch!
Bondage Restraints
You don’t have to be sweatily squeezed together to get it on. The heatwave is an excellent excuse to explore a more psychological sexual connection.
So, if you’re kinky, bondage is your best bet for minimal touching while relishing those high impact rewards. Now, we’re not talking full-body leather and latex – that’s asking for a sweaty situation! But less is more with handcuffs and ankle cuffs, blindfolds, sex swings, and door restraint.
Try starving your bound submissive of sensory pleasure, then slowly and suspensefully tease and please with direct, intentional stimulation as they writhe in relief. It’s a mighty fine way to play your way through these sticky days (and nights)!
Sensation Play
Ice cubes are a clear antidote to the summer heat. So, treat your lover to a round of refreshing drinks (the perfect excuse for iced coffee!), then utilise them cubes for something even more delicious… Bring nips, clits and tips to attention with slow circling movements of an ice cube, then whet your appetite with melt-in-the-mouth oral sex to bring on a shuddering climax!
But if you’re feeling the heat at home alone, why not explore temperature play with a sex toy? A chilled dildo (chill-do?) or buttplug in glass or stainless steel hits the spot for a shuddering solo cool down. So, stick your chilly willy in iced water or refridgerate for 15 minutes, then enjoy exhilarating penetration for deep cooling from the inside out! Warning: freezing your sex toy may result in injury.
Cooling Lubes
For chilly sensations in seconds, one slippery solution comes straight out of a bottle! Bondara’s 5-star Cooling Lubricant contains food-grade menthol for an intense tingle from the first application, enhancing each touch with an icy glide.
Or, if you’re into nipple play, Bijoux Indiscrets SLOW SEX Nipple Play Gel will tingle and stimulate you as it chills you out. Its sweet flavour and kissable formula mean you can turn your partner into a human mint ice cream – ready for the lickin’!
Hands-Off Sex
Or how about some ‘aural’ sex? Swap your sordid stories and fantasies with a partner for thrilling listening. And if all that filth gets you fired up, mutual masturbation means that you can get hot and bothered – from a cool distance – as you watch each other work up a sweat!
And when it’s too warm for a wank, explore the world of cerebral erotica via the audio porn app Quinn for some hands-off horniness. It’s music to our ears! Plus, you can always insert a remote control love egg or prostate massager before popping your earphones in!
Safety First!
Our summertime sex tips may be tempting, but whatever you’re up to, ensure you stay sexy and safe this heatwave! So, hydrate with plenty of water, grab some SPF and find a paddling pool if you’re lucky.
Health is wealth. So, be mindful of heat exhaustion or sunstroke. If you begin to feel dizzy, headachey or nauseous, seek a shady, cool spot and lie down immediately. See the NHS website for more information.
