When ‘entertaining’ a lover or getting sexy with yourself – A seductive setting can transform your sensual moments. So, swap those boring bedsheets for an enticing boudoir makeover with our simple ten-step guide!
Rich with tips to create your own heavenly haven, spice up your bedroom with desire-enhancing décor for a place of indulgent intimacy.
Boudoir Basics
A beautifully decorated room typically used by a woman for sleeping, dressing, relaxing, and entertaining.
The saying goes ‘Tidy home, tidy mind’ – Well, something very similar can be said for the energy in your bedroom. So, our mantra is ‘Sexy room, sexy mind‘… It’s where the ‘magic happens’, after all!
Exclusively for pleasure, the boudoir indulges the senses with an air of glamour and seduction. Whether dressing in sexy lingerie, reclining with a sex toy or romancing the night away with lovers, these sensual spaces inspire us to feel our most fancy and delve deeper into our fantasies.
A boudoir is more than the sum of its parts. This intentional space invites you to escape from everyday stresses for those much-needed moments of sensual indulgence! So, here are our ten tips for creating your own slice of heaven…
1. Treat Your Feet
One of the quickest, most affordable ways to give your room a gorgeous glow-up is with a rug. Whether sheepskin, faux fur or fuzzy yarn, think plush, deep pile and orgasmic beneath your bare feet!
It’s not called a ‘shag rug’ for nothing… Your new carpet should be so soft and inviting that you’d be raring to writhe around on it or get down on all fours when passion calls.
2. A Place to Recline
The boudoir lends itself to leisurely relaxation. From plush daybeds and sleigh beds to elegant chaise lounges, boudoir furniture should invite you to recline in all your sensual splendour!
When choosing your seating, it’s straightforward. Simply ask: “Would it be fun to masturbate or have sex here?” And if the answer is “YES!” then we have a winner!
3. Cushion for the Pushin’
Of course, some of us don’t have room for fancy furnishings to f*ck on, but a little imagination goes a long way.
So, sex up your bed (or sofa) with a sensual velvet throw, or invest in the plush and portable Small Wedge Purple Sex Position Cushion from British sex enhancers BangOn to find that perfect angle during sex and solo pleasure.
4. A Rockin’ Headboard
Much like the perfect shaggy rug, the right headboard adds an instant touch of luxury to your bedroom. But the benefits don’t stop there!
An elegant metal headboard opens up plenty of possibilities for bondage and restraint play. Locked into a pair of kinky handcuffs, you’re ready to romp! But, if a brand new bedhead is above your budget, you’re bound for a bang with a set of kinky bed restraints.
5. Mood Lighting
From vintage bulbs and luscious lamps to sparkling fairy lights, creating an inviting ambience is as easy as flicking a switch.
If you’re creating a boudoir on a budget, upcycle those old Christmas lights! Laced around the headboard or dressing mirror, the soft, sexy glow is sure to put a twinkle in your lover’s eye.
And for luxury lighting – with benefits – ignite this deliciously scented massage candle from High On Love™ to indulge in the seductive trinity of mood lighting, aromatherapy and a sensual massage glide for later!
Also, TENGA’s Iroha Ukidama Bath Light Vibrating Massager soothes the senses with gorgeous golden light, as rolling, rumbly stimulation gives eye-rolling solo and partnered pleasure.
6. Sensual Bed Sheets
Satisfying every sense is the aim of the game. So, taking a load off to roll around in your sheets should present an indulgent experience in itself!
Opt for satin (or silk if you’re boujie) for full-body thrills. But if you’re keen to up the kink factor, rubber lovers can get wet and wild on Bondara’s Dirty Laundry PVC Double Bed Sheet.
7. Boudoir Photography
The boudoir serves as a shrine to your sensual self, so a sexy portrait is perfectly placed here. Whether self-shot or captured by a professional lens, a boudoir photoshoot can be an empowering way to celebrate your sexuality.
Seeing yourself in this sexy light offers an instant confidence boost and reminds you of your deservingness of pleasure. You’ll be feeling yourself, both figuratively and literally, in no time!
8. Luxury Self-Care
Tending to your body and wellbeing is essential to the boudoir experience. So, adorn your dressing table with potions and lotions – and we don’t just mean your favourite perfume! Indeed, you’re primed for pleasure with a selection of luxury lubricants, massage oils and aphrodisiacs at hand.
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9. A Well-Stocked Sex Toy Box
Pleasure is paramount in the boudoir, so when catching some R&R in your new sensual space, make sure you have a few sex toys to hand whenever the mood strikes.
Sex toys have come a long way, so investing in your satisfaction has never been easier. From discreet bullet vibrators to powerful massage wands and luxury dildos – there’s something orgasmic for every desire!
Chalking up the 5* ratings, the new bestselling Duvet Day 10 Function 3-in-1 Suction G-Spot And Wand Vibrator is bringing the Big O to bedrooms everywhere…
This Swiss army sex toy activates far more pleasure receptors than your average vibrator, with suction, vibration, and revolutionary thumping stimulation for powerful radiating pleasure!
10. A Beautiful Bouquet
From roses to peonies and lilies, too, nothing adds a finishing touch as flowers do. A fresh bouquet brings an air of elegance to your boudoir while satisfying the senses with a feel-good floral fragrance.
But for longer-lasting luxury, create your own bouquet with fancy silk flowers or pick a pretty pot plant such as an orchid. Your choice of bloom is unique to you and will tie your brand new boudoir together beautifully!
