What To Give Up and What To Try in 2016 for a More Exciting Sex Life
For the New Year we all try to either give something up like chocolate, cigarettes or red meat, or we make a promise to ourselves to do something positive like giving to charity, joining the gym or reducing our carbon footprint by cycling to work instead of driving.
Well this week for Fetish Friday let’s think about what to give up and what to try in 2016 for a more exciting sex life.
What to Give Up in 2016
Give up being shy
Life’s too short to be shy about how you like it in bed. You know your body better than anyone else; you know where you like to be touched, in what way, at what speed and with what amount of pressure. In 2016, give up being shy and communicate to your partner just how you like to be touched. It will feel better for you and they’ll be happy that they’re making you feel so good!
Don’t let your work schedule get in the way of good sex
If you’re working long shifts, commuting for several hours and having to deal with kids when you get home, making time for a hot sex life can be extremely difficult. When there’s so much going on in your life and you’re constantly exhausted, Netflix and chill really does mean Netflix and chill! However, for the New Year try making time for good sex at least a couple of nights per week. When your body’s tingling after a mind-blowing orgasm you’ll be thankful that you switched off the TV.
Throw out your granny panties!
Okay sure, granny panties do serve a purpose and every girl owns a pair, but grundie undies have no place in your sex life! When in a long term relationship we often get a little too comfortable and end up having mundane sex in the same position without any real passion. In 2016 treat yourself to some sexy lingerie or designer boxers, fix your hair and seduce your partner for incredible sex that will really shake up your routine.
Don’t forget your safe word
If you’re into BDSM and edgeplay then your sex life may be a little extreme at times. When you’re playing with restraints, pain, gagging and discipline the lines between ‘yes’ and ‘no’ may become blurred making bondage play somewhat confusing. As ‘no’ can mean ‘no’ but ‘no’ can also mean ‘yes’, it is important that you have a safe word in place ready to halt play when things get a little too painful or become bit too intense.
What to Try in 2016
Freshen up your naughty drawer
In 2016 you’ll definitely want to freshen up your naughty drawer. Throw out any toys that are worn or damaged and replace them with some new and exciting gadgets. At Bondara we have dildos, vibrators, cock rings, butt plugs, anal beads, masturbators, strap ons and much, much more for a whole year or sexy fun.
Try watching porn for some new ideas
If you’re looking for something hot and new to try in the bedroom then start watching porn with your partner for some kinky new ideas. As well as being a fantastic source of inspiration, watching porn can be very arousing and will certainly get you both in the mood for sex.
Experiment with BDSM
If you’ve never experimented with BDSM, even after reading 50 Shades of Grey, then it’s certainly time that you gave it a try! Having fun with whips, floggers, restraints, spanking paddles, hand cuffs, ball gags, duct tape and more can be very exciting, empowering and liberating. In 2016 check out Bondara’s huge bondage department and release your inner Dom(me) or sub.
Anal sex is A-Okay!
If you don’t already have fun with your bum then you really, really should. There are thousands of nerve endings in the anus making sexual stimulation in that area extremely pleasurable. Even if you feel you’re not ready for full butt sex, try having some fun with toys such as butt plugs or anal beads to really enhance your sexual experience. If you’re feeling especially experimental, try giving your partner a rim job, I’m sure they’ll really like it!
Have a fantastic New Year!