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“Sploshing”, Wet and Messy fun!

Sploshing, also known as Wet and Messy fetishism involves applying a generous amount of something sloppy or slimy to the naked body or clothing to generate sexual arousal. As a part of food play the ‘Wet And Messy’ substance may include whipped cream, melted chocolate, custard, baked beans, ketchup, syrup, spaghetti, cake, gravy, jelly and various sloppy desserts.


Other substances involved in sploshing could be mud, ‘slime’/ ‘goo’/ ‘gunge’, paint, oil, shaving foam, massage lotion and various bathroom products. Basically as long as it’s slippery, slimy and in great abundance, a WAM fetishist may use it as a part of sexual play.

So for those of you who don’t quite ‘get’ sploshing, let’s see if I can fill you in and maybe even turn you on!

So what’s arousing about Wet And Messy play?

Well firstly, there is the physical sensation of sploshing. Take cake-sitting for example; a splosher would enjoy the sensation of cream and icing sliding up their butt crack and around their pussy or cock. The feeling of the sponge base can also be bouncy and fun, and the temperature of the food can providing additional stimulation.


Let’s look at baked beans, or mud as another example; a splosher may enjoy the feeling of that wet, squidgy substance between their toes or fingers, and the sensation of it dribbling all over their body. The splippiness and the wetness can be associated with the wetness of sex and arousal… even the most reserved amongst you must understand the erotic appeal of massage oil on your partner’s body, so WAM isn’t wildly different.

Now, I know you’re all fans of sinful behaviour, so why wouldn’t you love combining lust with a little gluttony? Imagine the sweetness of licking cream off your girlfriend’s tits or sucking honey off your boyfriend’s cock; turn that thick dick into a delicious lollypop. Receiving oral sex as your partner gorges on jam and smears goo along your body can be an intense experience and as enjoyable to give as to receive.


So you’re getting it a little more now? Well time to confuse you once again; a WAM fetishist may find it sexual arousing to have a pie thrown at their face – what?

Queue the BDSM element of Sploshing… or Mess and M and some like to call it.

Much lighter than traditional sadomasochism, sploshing is has a more relaxed and comic approach to dominance and submission. In a typical scenario one person is stood in sweet anticipation, as the other selects a mess of choice from a table of sloppy goodness. The ‘Dom(me)’ would then toss a cake at the ‘sub’, or pour a bucket of baked beans over their head. Of course it may then only be a matter of time before roles are reversed and you’re both covered in slippery, slimy gunge.


So, do people look sexier with custard in their eyebrows and spaghetti hoops in their knickers? No, but that’s kind of the point. One of the appeals of Wet and Messy play is that you don’t have to worry or care about your clothes being ruined or your hair being smothered in mud; you’re letting go, having fun and enjoying physical sensations without any need to be self conscious.

So you want to let go and have some messy fun too?

Well a good place to start may be the bath or shower, unless you happen to have reels of plastic wrapping to cover your furniture or carpets. Anything that you don’t want to ruin with food or mess that could potentially stain, remove from the area. Ideally you want to play in a room with surfaces that are easy to wipe down and clothes that you’re not going to miss (unless ruining your best suit is part of the turn on).

Next, choose your goo! If you’re into food play then select your favourite messy treats. If you want a big cream cake to sit on, then great, but don’t mix sweet and savoury foods or you could end up feeling nauseous. Baking and preparing the food could be a fun part of foreplay; a naughty naked chef, licking the spoon… but if you’re just looking for cheap edible slop try checking your supermarket for extra large cans of value baked beans or tins of custard – the more the better!


For something sweet and messy without trashing the house you could try an edible body paint? At Bondara we have body paint in delicious chocolate or saucy strawberry, each in a squeezy tube, perfect for messy fun.

If you’re not interesting in eating during your sexual games then getting messy outdoors could be the perfect option. Try going out in some completely inappropriate clothing after a rainy day and bathe like a beast in lovely puddles of mud. Outdoor fun could also be a great place to take your buckets of slime and gunge for sloppy, sexy play.


With that in mind I wish you a slimy Saturday, a slippery Sunday and a filthy Fetish Friday!


Shunga Aphrodisiac Edible Body Paint

Available in Chocolate, Strawberry Sparkling Wine and Vanilla Chocolate.

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