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Threesomes

Oh the threesome, whether it’s a wild fantasy of yours, an awkward topic of conversation between you and your partner, or the end result of a drunken night out in Ibiza, we’ve all either tried it, or given it some consideration!

The threesome was rated the most popular sexual fantasy for men, as well as being a very highly ranked fantasy for women, so how can something so ‘mainstream’ be considered a fetish? Well, rather than a threesome being a fetish in itself, consider it a 1UP on any other fetish!

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For instance, if you’re into blondes, why not have a threesome with two hot blondes? If big tits are your thing, why not enjoy four bouncing breasts instead of two? Maybe hunky bodybuilders are to your liking – so add a little extra muscle to the bedroom! Into feet? Twenty toes are better than ten! Well… thirty toes, if you include your own… or twenty nine and a half toes if one of you is Chandler Bing.

Anyway, you get my point!

A threesome is of course a voyeur’s wet dream come true, not only do they get to watch and observe, but they get to participate also. An exhibitionist will likewise love a threesome; enjoying having the eyes of two horny souls hungrily devouring their body.

A threesome is also the perfect opportunity to explore bisexuality. Many women fantasise about being with another woman, whether that’s passionate kissing, caressing her breasts, tasting the pussy of another woman, or even using a strap-on dildo! In a threesome there is no standard template, no tired routine, so you can explore new sensations and pleasures which may even change your whole view on sexuality!

Of course, very few heterosexual men can deny that they’d love to watch two lesbians enjoying each other’s bodies – especially if one of them is his girlfriend! In a threesome of course he can take part as well as enjoying the view; maybe he takes one girl from behind as she goes down on the other, or she could be sucking his cock as the other girl is pleasured with a sex toy.3sum 2

Many women have fantasies about being pleasured by two men at the same; the idea of being desired and craved by two hot blooded men. When a threesome involves two men and one woman, there is the option of double penetration, which would involve one man taking her in the ass as the other fucks her pussy. Double penetration and triple penetration (which would consist of one woman and three men, the third man getting a blow job) are fetishes in themselves; a fascination with filling every hole and taking the woman in every way possible.

Another popular position for a threesome comprising of two men and one woman is the hog roast/ spit roast, in which the women is on all fours and a men kneels at each end of her body, one being pleasured orally and the other taking her from behind (aptly named as the woman is positioned like a hog on a spit). The men can then throw their hands up above her body, so their palms meet, a position known as the Eiffel Tower – a slightly less offensive name!

 

Threesomes and Cuckolding

3sum 3Having more than two people in the bedroom is a necessity for any cuckolding fantasy. A cuckold relationship is one in which a man (perhaps a man with a small penis or low sex drive) enjoys watching is wife or girlfriend being pleasured by another man (who will usually have a bigger penis or is in some other way more masculine). Although the husband will often sit on the sidelines as a voyeur, he may participate in the threesome by going down on his wife, perhaps after the other man has ejaculated inside her.

 

Threesomes and BDSM

Threesome can of course work brilliantly in a BDSM relationship, either with two Dom(me)s or two submissives, adding to the intensity of the experience. For instance in petplay, one ‘owner’ may have two rubber-clad slave dogs to pet or punish however he or she pleases.

 

Twin fantasy threesome

To some nothing could be hotter than a threesome with two people who look exactly alike! Of course, I’m talking about identical twins. Whether that’s two leggy Scandinavian sisters or two buff Australian brothers, twincest can be a huge turn on.

 

Ravishment (rape fantasy) in group sex

Horrible as it may sound, a sexual fantasy of being raped by a man, or group of men, is one which is fairly commonplace. In such a fantasy or role play the pseudo-victim may find it wildly arousing to be ravished by two men at once.

What’s the only thing better than a threesome? A foursome.3sum 4

What’s the only thing better than a foursome? Pizza.

 

See you next week 😉 xx

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