If you count yourself among the women who live with sexual problems in a sex-obsessed world, you are not alone. Sexual issues affect approximately 40% of women during their lifetime, with over one in ten reporting profound psychological effects as a result (Basson MD, 2013). And when sexual concerns spill into our everyday lives, this is diagnosed as Sexual Dysfunction.
Evidently, female sexual dysfunction is a complicated range of symptoms that are often chalked up as a plethora of specific diagnoses.
Among the most common sexual problems reported were anxiety or inhibition during sexual activity (38.1%c), lack of sexual pleasure (16.3%), and difficulty in achieving orgasm (15.4%). Other common problems were lack of lubrication (13.6%) and painful intercourse (11.3%).
Results of a survey study of 329 women in an outpatient gynecological clinic
Rosen et al, 2008.
The causes of sexual dysfunction are myriad because they can range from psychological factors such as depression and poor body image; to biological factors such as hormonal imbalances or menopausal changes; situational problems such as relationship difficulties or a poor work-life balance; and chemical factors such as prescription drugs. Unhelpfully, anti-depressant SSRI’s are a well-known impediment to arousal and climax.
And so, recovery from sexual hang-ups is a challenging but meaningful journey. It takes courage to remind yourself that you deserve sexual fulfilment after a sometimes lengthy period of mental decompensation. A sexually empowered future lies ahead with a little help from your doctor, a brave new attitude, and our catalogue of revitalising products.
She-Ology: It’s a Vaginal Revolution!
Thankfully, leading OB-GYN expert and women’s health educator Dr Sherry Ross started an important conversation surrounding women’s sexual health issues in her stigma-smashing 2017 book She-Ology: The Definitive Guide to Women’s Intimate Health. Period. And with an exciting new instalment in 2020, the excellently titled She-ology, The She-quel: Let’s Continue the Conversation is maintaining the V agenda!
In addition, Sherry expertly illustrates the lifecycle of a vagina in its various states of undress and functions. And her goal is to empower sufferers of sexual health problems via a revolution of female sexual information. She uplifts women to ‘form, mend or strengthen their relationship with the most commanding and complex female organ’.
Moreover, having equipped women for a psycho-sexual revolution, Dr Sherry now presents a tangible therapy. You can improve your vaginal vitality with the She-Ology™ 5-Piece Wearable Vaginal Dilator Set.
And so, this graduated set is an effective therapy for a multitude of sexually dysfunctional issues. Incredibly so, the soft silicone probes revitalise your vaginal area by improving muscular elasticity, improving sensitivity and replenishing tissues through improved circulation. They reduce pain experienced upon insertion and penetration as you gradually advance to the larger probes. And so the ergonomic design allows these pastel dilators to be worn for hours at a time for improved efficacy, leaving you to get on with your day.
So, why not invest in the power of science? She-Ology is now available at Bondara.
If You Don’t Use It – You Lose It!
The functionality of the circulatory, neural and muscular systems of the female genitalia are maintained by arousal and orgasm.
Sexual activity, health and well-being – the beneficial roles of coitus and masturbation
Roy J. Levin, 2007.
So, as the adage says, ‘If you don’t use it, you lose it‘, and it couldn’t be truer for the female sexual response. Indeed, we are complex creatures bearing the pressure to ‘perform’ our sexual desire in line with expectations of our gender. But it’s time to throw out outdated ideas, Marie Kondo style! Sexual fulfilment is your destiny, and erotic pleasure is yours for the taking.
Erotic Mindfulness for Recovery
Indeed, you may be familiar with the concept of Mindfulness; a mental process of purposely bringing one’s attention to experiences occurring in the present moment without judgment. And this powerful tool is no less relevant when it comes to relocating your desire and arousal. Indeed, the sex-positive revolution has done wonders in creating a female-friendly market of simple sexual aids to bring you and your vagina squarely back to the present moment.
Feminine erotic wearables can help the user by refocusing attention on the body, specifically the vagina. And so, whether it’s the jiggle of kegel balls or the tingling sensations of a clitoral stimulant, in erotic mindfulness waves of pleasure situate the wearer in the present moment and remind her of the power of her erotic energy.
Manifest Your Erotic Destiny
By the same token, why not experiment with this psychic device and reconnect to your sexual self? Our affordable selection of products for refocusing the mind on bodily pleasure is just a click away!
The Bondara Essential Orgasm Cream is a vegan-friendly formula designed the heighten sensitivity. This powerful serum draws circulation to your va-jay-jay for a deliciously warm tingling sensation that improves your orgasmic potential. Apply a small amount to your intimate area for instant effect as relaxing waves of pleasure wash over you. Spice up your daily walk home with the O cream, apply before foreplay or when going solo.
Sexercise?
Instead, why not consider the Bondara Secret Sensations Kegel Training Set? Featuring a silicone holster and four weighted silicone balls; this high-quality Kegel training set is an excellent exercise in sexual empowerment – Literally! For best results, give your pelvic floor a daily work-out of 15-20 minutes to strengthen muscles and improve local circulation to replenish vaginal tissue and moisture. Indeed, you’ll strengthen your pelvic floor and enjoy many benefits, including better bladder control and more intense orgasms!
But if those Kegels don’t appeal to your puss, perhaps you’d approve of the stunning Glacier Glass Aura Ben Wa Balls. Made from 100g non-porous, glass, these ultra-strong Ben Wa balls strengthen your pelvic floor. So, why not savour the smooth weighted sensation of these iridescent beauties as you go about your day? The benefits of Ben Wa include stronger vaginal muscles, improved bladder control, and belting orgasms!
But perhaps edible aphrodisiacs are more your thing… So, why not encourage your sex drive with the expertly blended Bondara Essentials Female Libido Drops? Containing L-Arginine and vitamin C, these daily drops will have you feeling your fruitiest! Indeed, you can enjoy stimulating results under the influence of its effective active ingredients, boosting your circulation to supercharge arousal. Et voila!
