Have you ever met someone and immediately felt an inexplicable draw towards them? Well, you could have been under the effects of Sex Magic.
I haven’t been one to shy away from practising spells, especially where there is a shared desire (yes, I can confirm the rumours are true; I am a witch). Whether manifesting a job, opportunities, or a steamy romp with a partner, you might already be engaging with unconscious spell work.
What is Sex Magic?
This kind of magic can include spells that increase libido, improve sexual performance, attract love, or intensify sexual energy between existing partners.
Intentions and ethics are paramount when working with sex magic. We’re not messing with free will, so fully informed, enthusiastic consent should always be gained for well-intended spell work to be successful.
Casting a sex spell only works if there is consent between the individuals involved and works to boost any attraction that is already there. You’ll also be pleased to know that couples can use them to reignite passion or attract a new romantic partner. Ooh la la!
| We strongly recommend that you consult an experienced spell caster |
Honey-pot: Sex Magic Method (novice-friendly)
My personal favourite and most used sex spell is the honey love spell. It’s super easy to prepare; your finest jar of honey and some cleansing materials are the only ingredients you will need.
Honey has a profound significance in various cultures and a deep history, making its mark in myths, beliefs and religious texts. So, it’s no surprise that honey is a common ingredient in spell work.
Symbolic of life and love’s sweetness, hone is also linked to the divine feminine energy. Many believe that it can help enhance spiritual awareness and connection. Be warned; this method can make someone fall madly in love with you or manifest anything you desire.
Materials:
- Cleansing materials (cinnamon/sage)
- Glacier Glass Magic Touch Beaded Dildo
- Honey
Step 1: Cleanse your space by placing cinnamon on your lips or smudging with a sage stick to protect yourself and your space.
Step 2: Use visualisation to picture your desired partner or goals.
Step 3: Next, recite positive affirmations about your desired outcome – e.g. “They can’t stop thinking about me”
Step 4: Add honey to your finger or spoon and place it under your tongue.
The spell is now complete, so mote it be! Tidy your space, care for yourself and let go of any outcomes – or take it to the next level with the following method…
“O Yes”: Orgasm method (novice-friendly)
Sex magic materials:
You will harness your sacral energy for this manifestation ritual, linking your pleasure to your desires. I suggest you try the O method when having solo fun or with a trusted partner.
By visualising your manifestations when you feel yourself, you’ll channel your sacral energy for more extraordinary sensuality, intimacy and creativity into abundance. As you begin to orgasm, focus on your intentions, then as your ‘O’, release your desires to the universe and let go.
For me, I didn’t do it knowingly, but the time I felt most in touch with myself and my [witchcraft] practice was when I met my boyfriend 2 years ago :3
Lynn, Lincoln
Burn baby, burn: Sex Magic method (beginner friendly)
Materials:
- Candles that are either red or pink (x2)
- A needle tool
- Cleansing materials
- Witchy outfit
Step 1: Get into your sexy spell-casting underwear and cleanse your space like in the honey method! A tidy space (even energetically) means a tidy mind.
Step 2: Using the needle tool, score your partner’s full name into your first candle and your own full name into the other candle. If your needle tool is metal, heating it up will make scoring the wax easier.
Step 3: Hold the candles together, light them, and drip the wax over yourself and/or your partner, visualising your desires. To enhance this sex magic, I would also incorporate the ‘O’ method. Tee-hee!
Remember, practising magic is all about looking after yourself, prioritising your pleasure and practising letting go. There are so many ways to manifest abundance: by mindfully making your coffee whilst speaking affirmations or by screaming out your desires during shared orgasms with your partner; find what works for you. But in the meantime – if you’re struggling with where to start, I’d suggest here: Vibrators | Bondara
