this dildo is really well made. It feels wonderful to hold and when kept in hot water for a while holds the heat well during use. I’ve not tried making it cold during play, but I can imagine it would do an equally great job at retaining the cold. The dildo is on the slightly firmer side of bendy, which I think is perfect. Has the strength to put pressure on your P spot while playing with but equally moulds to your body to feel amazing. The dildo looks great too. Whether hanging off the end of my wife’s harness or stuck to a wall this thing looks incredible. The addition of the balls make this an excellent dildo for anal play, equally it is not too long or too girthy to intimidate those new to anal after the addition of plenty of lube and warming up I would highly recommend this dildo for anyone looking to start with anal all the way up to people who have loved it for years. For me it ticks all of the boxes.