If you are looking for some depth this is a good starter! Has a nice feel to it as you slide in. You can feel those bumps rippling against you. And you will feel it right up in there. I think I’m ready for something a little longer and slightly thicker but I’m going to enjoy this for a while longer yet. Really great thing about this is it will suction stick to a tiled wall so bathroom play standing up is a breeze. Nothing like backing right up onto this. But use plenty of lube and relube often!