Maybe this wasn't the right dildo for one inexperienced in the pleasures of anal fun, it took a few goes of just playing around with the tip before I could go further. Then one day, I managed to get the head in. The feeling was fantastic but overwhelming so I stopped. Next time, I got the head in again, but didn't stop. I went slowly down the whole shaft. Relaxed for a moment with it balls deep, then slowly started riding it up and down. Before too long, I was bouncing up and down on in complete and utter ecstasy. Now I'm addicted. Awesome toy!