This dildo was bigger than expected but that’s no complaint, just need to be ready with the lube! It’s weighty and firm but with some flex, fun to swing about before the play begins! Hehe The silicone is lovely and soft and I particularly like the purple shade its in. The middle section is pretty flexible and I liked the bend to it, as apposed to the straight double ended dildos you get, for me it makes to easier for me to hold onto and makes it more comfortable to use. One end curves up slightly and is bigger towards the end, and the other is more bobbily…. Having played with it a few times now I personally prefer the bobbly end but I suppose it depends on what positions you use it in! A very fun toy and I would recommend it ;)