Unfortunately my partner and I can't seem to keep this in whilst penetrating the other. I would love to know what people do with this to stop that from happening. A bit of a waste of money if I'm honest, just use it as a vibrator

If you are wanting quiet, then look elsewhere, although it's very quiet once it's inside But the intensity is off the scale. This brought both me and my partner to climax in minutes, and it was a wow, what the hell just happened moment Well worth the money, a great product. We are looking at other items made by these to see if they are all as awesome