Really good product, powerful as a plug-in wand. You will get what you're expecting, especially if you're reading reviews. I will say that the description made it sound maybe more flexible than it is. The entire mound you see in photos is a brick that vibrates- which is fine, just not obvious before I bought it. My one complaint is that it is LOUD. I had been hoping to do some discreet play with it, but even on its absolute lowest setting it is several times louder than a phone on vibrate. This gets amplified if you put it on any furniture (including beds) to grind on. If you live with other people or in a building with thin walls it might be too embarrassing to use.

I got this as an early Christmas treat. I’ve wanted a sittable/grindable toy for ages, but the prices of the branded ones always put me off. Saw this, saw the price, saw that it vibrates and has a remote, so I jumped at the chance. Where to start? For a toy that’s not mains-powered, it’s surprisingly powerful, and the vibrations are like a battery- or rechargeable mini-wand, but over a larger area. So, it’s well-suited for specific clit stimulation or more vulva-wide sensations. I’ve had the most enjoyment out of it as a lay-on or sit-on vibrator (both clothed and not). There’s plenty of run time, so it’s perfect if you like longer, low-intensity sessions or for edging, which is super easy with the remote. I haven’t had the chance to try it with a partner yet, but I’m already clearing my schedule to experiment using it with other toys.

When i first saw this i just had to have it as its so different to anything ive seen or tried before. I love how im able to use it alone or with my partner. I really enjoyed how i was able to grind on it as thats something that i really enjoy. It being hands free and using a remote so not messing around with buttons underneath was very handy. I loved grinding on it while my partner had control of the remote. We also used it for some sensual massage play was really fun to. I would say when using this toy to use as a lot of lube to get the full fun out of it!

This looks almost like a cute sea creature. The silicone is some of the softest I've used which was really nice! The hole which can but used with hands or Penis was a good size, my husband struggles sometimes as the rings can be too tight for him but this was just right for a thicker man, it wasn't intrusive and felt great when I was sitting on my husband, the vibration felt great to both of us. Definitely a new addition to the frequent flyers box.

My wife loves this one the best one on the market she likes the speed .she has used this in shower with the fast speed she loves it.when we are out in the car she will play with it she likes me to watch when she plays with it she takes her red thong of start to play with yourself, she has a few orgasms it’s the best toy on the market.

wow great quality. Felt amazing on. Multi use Great used for multiple orgasm on her and him

Wow, wow, wow! I've never owned anything like this before and now it's a necessity in my collection. Such a variety of uses, whether you're single or with a partner. It's rare to find a toy with such a large surface area, so it's one to get out during a wild romp, when you don't want to have to concentrate on putting smaller toys in exactly the right place.... And I've only just found out you can safely use it in the bath or shower too!! I actually might buy the one in black as well. Just be mindful to stock the battery for the remote, it's probably not one you have lying around and you don't want to be left without this!

What a great toy alone or with my wife never seen my wife so knackered and wet Would recommend to anyone for sole or partner use A good valentine pressy

Add another to the list! Place it on the back of a strap on and it works perfectly for her to grind on as she is pegging you! Multiple climaxing

Got some nice speeds it’s a bit noisy. My wife says the best one she has tried. She says she has a few orgasm with this so it is worth the money we will order again

My wife has used the grinder a few times for masturbating with. She has enjoyed putting it on the arm of the chair and sitting and grinding on it. Unfortunately, it was too tight to use as a cock ring. I managed to get it on once, and my partner had a massive orgasm when she was grinding on it.

It’s very good nice speed when my wive sit on it it makes here very wet gets me going.when we’re are out she plays with it pull here thong to one side the rest is history

When i first saw this i just had to have it as its so different to anything ive seen or tried before. I love how im able to use it alone or with my partner. I really enjoyed how i was able to grind on it as thats something that i really enjoy. It being hands free and using a remote so not messing around with buttons underneath was very handy. I loved grinding on it while my partner had control of the remote. We also used it for some sensual massage play was really fun to. I would say when using this toy to use as a lot of lube to get the full fun out of it!Reviewed as part of our Bondara Pleasure Seekers testing programme

I was very intrigued by The Grinder when I saw it. I liked the idea of having a versatile toy that can be used in a tonne of scenarios! I couldn't test it as a masturbator or couples' toy, but it works fantastically as a solo toy or paired with other sex toys. Lube is a must-have to get the most out of The Grinder! The silicone is super squishy and flexes really well to fit wherever you want to put it. The texture on the centre is perfect for grinding and rubbing, but it feels amazing when used with a dildo, too! I'll definitely be breaking this multi-use toy out for more involved "self-care" sessions. Can't wait to try it as a seated vibe when I get an empty house!  

I got this as an early Christmas treat. I’ve wanted a sittable/grindable toy for ages, but the prices of the branded ones always put me off. Saw this, saw the price, saw that it vibrates and has a remote, so I jumped at the chance. Where to start? For a toy that’s not mains powered, it’s surprisingly powerful, and the vibrations are like a battery or rechargeable mini wand but over a larger area. So, it’s well suited for specific clit stimulation or more vulva-wide sensations. I’ve had the most enjoyment out of it as a lay-on or sit-on vibrator (both clothed and not). There’s plenty of run time, so it’s perfect if you like longer, low-intensity sessions or for edging, which is super easy with the remote. I’m an idiot and have already lost the remote under my bed, but thankfully, the Grinder works without it; you just have to cycle through the patterns with the power button on the base. I haven’t had the chance to try it with a partner yet, but I’m already clearing my schedule to experiment using it with other toys.

Item arrived quickly and as always, packaging was well done and discreet. Big shout out to customer services who were fabulous when I had to contact them because the remote for mine was missing - they located one and sent it to me by next day delivery! As a woman who CANNOT orgasm without clit stimulation, I can't recommend this enough. It was awesome for both of us to be hands and wand free. My partner is a well endowed man and he managed to get everything through the ring, balls included, which he enjoyed. The silicone feels awesome and the grinder is plenty wide enough to accommodate all shapes, which also means you don't end up with that numbing sensation from too much localised vibration. I went on top and not only did I cum hard, but at the same time as him which is always a lovely experience. We both had a great time with it, which ensures we will be experimenting with other positions. I also think this would be really good even without the vibration being on as it's just great to have that little extra something in place to hit the right spots. Bondara saw a gap in the market and filled it successfully! Thanks guys