There are lots of positives, the look is feminine , it’s not too noisy and the ten settings give a good variety and are powerful. However I found them all a little too intense- I’d have preferred a gentler setting as one of the options . Also, with the metallic texture you definitely need to use a lubricant. I do really like the sleekness and that it has a discreet design - it doesn't shout 'I'm a vibrator!'