Bought this at my wife's behest and she loved it the first time we used it on her!! Its soft and easy to use. Used on each other quite a bit since and would highly recommend it to add to your bondage repotoire.

Got this on a special offer, and by heck is it good. It's way better than I expected. The joining 'bar' is actually a pair of flat steel bars sewn into strong webbing so it is strong and weighty but flat enough to lie on for hours. The cuffs are soft but with tough webbing and really strong velcro, and the spreader means that when strapped in reasonably tight you simply can't escape. Trust me on this.