Never had a spreader before but loved the idea, this one looked pretty good and with the extra kinky addition of the padlocks we just had to give it a go, we love it!. The length of the bar is perfect, the cuffs are comfortable and easily adjustable they also go small enough to fit the wrists. My SO loved the positioning and ease of being able to move my legs compared to using under bed restraints.. a great addition to spice up the bedroom at an even better price