OK so I LOVED this design and was so excited to show my partner who was… less impressed. But it made way for a rather unexpected roleplay where he would ‘torture’ me for wearing such ‘awful bows’.  They certainly withstood the play very well, the chain is strong and sturdy and the buckles fit nicely without being too tight or loose. I now wear these when in need of a good spanking and my partner understands the signal when I bring them out!