I enjoy being flogged and the feel of this one in your had is great. The little heart on the end makes it look almost cute but don't be fooled... have a little practice first and this flogger is it gives a bigger sting that you would think! Its the ends of the silicone strands that you need to watch out for! But once we found the right flick the sting is soo moorish! We found the flick is easy to control and make accurate so this little flogger has made it's way to the top of our draw!