Id been looking forward for this to come, so when it arrived i was very excited to get it on! It is really easy to put on and very comfortable to wear! My wife put the cuffs on me and hooked me to the belt using the double ended bolt snap hooks provided with the belt putting my hands out of action! Then, before tying the strap that comes up between your legs, my wife inserted Bondara's Bumhole Plunder But Plug in me, then tied the strap up! Wow this felt amaizing, i was powerless and in her control! I think its fair to say we both absolutely love this product, fits nicely on, the O ring just the right size to fit through, comfortable and easy to adjust to fit. The straps are soft on the inside and I had no issues with chaffing or pinching with it on. I would say it could be worn under your trousers throughout the day, without the cuffs of course, and no one would be any wiser! I would highly recommend this product, you won't be disappointed!