Bought this vibrator as it sounded good. But for me it wasn’t the right fit as it has a tendency to slip out with the slightest movement. I think a t bar would be a good idea. I think it would be better to have less sequence options and instead have maybe only 4 that are more powerful. Also when you’re loobed up its difficult to change the settings. Having said all that I am having fun using it and have even tried it as an anal toy and on my clit.