As a trans man, when me and my partner decided on which one she’d be comfortable with and which I’d be comfortable with, we decided to go with this one. After it arrived, she said that experience was mind blowing when it came to how realistic it felt, it was also completely comfortable with me and had no issues at all.

The dildo for the strap on is very life like so depending what you are wanting this is a plus. The texture is also much more flexible due to the silicone. The strap is good as it is adjustable and could be used with different dildos. However the design wasn’t our favourite as the back part is just one strap up the back, so can end up being uncomfortable during sex. It’s also not the most sexy looking harness compared to others however this harness is the only one compatible with this kind of dildo. Over the dildo has the right balance of girth and length and the texture was also interesting and would try other dildos like this again.  Reviewed as part of our Bondara Pleasure Seekers testing programme.

Brilliant strap on only cons we found was it hangs a little low, so partner struggled getting started with it, and it's a tad big for a beginner, I would say. This was my and my partner's first experience with using a strap we both thoroughly enjoyed it.