{"id":9939,"date":"2017-05-14T15:30:42","date_gmt":"2017-05-14T14:30:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/?p=9939"},"modified":"2023-05-05T16:42:56","modified_gmt":"2023-05-05T15:42:56","slug":"why-you-should-be-edging","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/lifestyle\/sex-tips\/why-you-should-be-edging\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Should Be Edging"},"content":{"rendered":"

Masturbation isn\u2019t usually sexy. We may put in the effort to carefully select some porn and reach for our favourite sex toy<\/a>, but once we\u2019re into it, we don\u2019t really care about making it a long, drawn out affair. Climax is our goal, and we\u2019re sprinting towards it.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s where edging comes in. While women can do this too, it\u2019s most popular amongst men. They say patience is a virtue and edging definitely puts it to the test \u2013 but with the promise of an intensified climax and a more explosive ejaculation, it\u2019s definitely worth the wait.<\/p>\n

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How to Edge<\/h3>\n

Edging, also known as \u2018orgasm control\u2019, is surprisingly easy to do \u2013 if you\u2019re good at self-control.<\/p>\n

To successfully edge, you have to be aware of what\u2019s happening to your body. Don\u2019t get too caught up in the moment as the last thing on your mind will be stopping! To help with this, many men find it easier to edge during masturbation. With zero distractions and no pressure to please your partner, you\u2019re in complete control.<\/p>\n

Edging isn\u2019t complicated; the hardest thing about it is willpower. We\u2019re not going to tell you how to masturbate, as we\u2019re fairly confident you\u2019ve done this before. So, you can just go ahead and do your usual thing.<\/p>\n

As you feel yourself reaching the brink of climax, stop. <\/strong>It\u2019s up to you whether you stop stimulation completely or just slow things down but if you\u2019re new to this, we suggest doing the first (just to reduce temptation\u2026).<\/p>\n

For some, edging just once or twice is enough. But if you want a masturbation marathon, there\u2019s no limit to how many times you can do it. It\u2019s up to you, but bear in mind that the more you edge, the more blood is drawn to the genitalia, heightening sensitivity and building up to a more explosive orgasm.<\/p>\n

\"Man<\/p>\n

\u2026And If You\u2019re Still Not Convinced<\/h3>\n

As well as feeling incredible for you, there are also other reasons to try edging.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re intrigued by BDSM, edging is a great way of easing yourself into power play. Encourage your partner to use their hands or mouth to take you close to climax before stopping. Teased and deprived of an ejaculation, you\u2019ll both get to experience the dom\/sub roles without the need for kinky restraints or spanking.<\/p>\n

The more you practice, the better you become at holding off your climax. Not only is this great for anyone who suffers from premature ejaculation, it\u2019s also going to work wonders during sex. Everyone knows women take longer to reach their peak, so climb there with them as you both enjoy slow-building pleasure and an intense climax (we know they\u2019ll be grateful).<\/p>\n

Finally, edging has also been credited with aiding mild erectile issues and improving low libidos. Who knew masturbation could have so <\/em>many benefits?!<\/p>\n

There\u2019s no reason to not try edging. The worst that will happen is that you lose control and climax \u2013 which is hardly a bad thing. Go and hone your new skills!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Masturbation isn\u2019t usually sexy. We may put in the effort to carefully select some porn and reach for our favourite sex toy, but once we\u2019re into it, we don\u2019t really care about making it a long, drawn out affair. Climax is our goal, and we\u2019re sprinting towards it. That\u2019s where edging comes in. 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