I’ve always had an exhibitionist side that I kept hidden for too long. I’ve always been confident around men and forever loved the look of fetish wear but I didn’t know much about domination until I came across an adult webcam site.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When I logged on, I started teasing men and having fun. Honestly, I was neither Domme nor sub when I started and did a bit of everything but very quickly I became naturally more dominant and I started discovering specific fetishes and activities within BDSM that I enjoyed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
When I did my homework and research about being a Mistress and Googled fetishes, kinks and watched Femdom porn, it helped me to flourish as a Dominatrix. I soon realised that I was very good at it and rather than doing it for fun and a bit of pocket money, I turned it into a career.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
BDSM has given me a real passion and I am forever learning about new kinks each and every day that I\u2019m on cam, conducting real time sessions or talking to fellow Dommes or subs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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<\/a><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\nDoes it turn you on to dominate men online?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\nIt doesn’t turn me on as such, but I certainly get a huge buzz from it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I get a huge ego boost when dominating men. What started out as a bit of fun has turned into a living and I guess the money turns me on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Really, it\u2019s the power exchange I love; I get to manipulate men and hurt them emotionally, physically and financially.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
With my partner we enjoy the fact that the subs I session with both on cam and in person do not get to sleep with me, which is inevitably what they want. They will never get me but my partner does; that has certainly spiced up our sex life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Say for instance I do a real time session, teasing and humiliating a sub who wants to fuck me; being an utter bitch and saying \u201cyou can’t have me\u201d, afterwards I want to pounce on my partner as he isn’t submissive like them and it kind of feeds his ego and makes things more fun for us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What is your favourite way to punish or humiliate a submissive man?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\nDefinitely CBT (Cock and Ball Torture). I am a little sadist and there’s nothing better to me than hurting a man’s dangly bits (after all, that\u2019s where his brains are!). I am a big fan of ball busting which is an extreme kink, but I love it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not to mention, I also love humiliation as it\u2019s such a huge subject area; from flushing men’s head down toilets to using their mouths as ashtrays, or having them lick my muddy boots. I enjoy domestic servitude also and used to have a sub come over and pay to do my housework once a week dressed in a sissy maid outfit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But all in all, the main thing I love is the power exchange and manipulating them into doing what I want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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<\/a>Bondara Bondage<\/em><\/strong><\/a>: All Locked Up and Nowhere to go Chastity Bundle<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\nWhat\u2019s the strangest or funniest thing(s) a man has ever said to you in an online dominatrix session?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\nThis is probably the most difficult question to answer as every day I get so many strange requests. My motto is safe and consensual and I do not do anything with my subs that would require hospital attention, but some things suggested by subs really make me question the minds of men!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Most recently I was asked \u201cCan you tell me to put superglue down my cock?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The fetish requests are the strangest; I had a sub with a fetish for turtleneck sweaters, another for watching me read a specific gossip magazine, and another one today who wanted me to watch him have sex with his hoover.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The list of strange requests is endless. I tell myself that what is normal for someone is bizarre for someone else so I\u2019m always open to hearing about new fetishes and kinks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Would you ever consider being a Dominatrix in \u2018real life\u2019?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\nIn terms of my relationship with my partner I’m kind of more submissive in that I like him to take care of me but I’m not into being tied up and whipped. I tried it once and didn\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019m suppose I can be dominant and submissive. I’m definitely very dominant with other men who try to talk to me though. After all the years of learning about fetishes and understanding what men think about when wanking it\u2019s very easy to be put off by them. Sometimes I speak to guys like shit if they come over to chat me up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I am definitely confident and have grown to be more dominant in the way I talk to men. Admittedly, I do get a kick from being cocky with them as they don’t expect it. I feel like I know more about them in one glance then they do. I look at them and think; what weird things are you into?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If I were single I think I\u2019d struggle to find another man like my partner at the moment who is ok with what I do and we have our boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Definitely CBT (Cock and Ball Torture). I am a little sadist and there’s nothing better to me than hurting a man’s dangly bits (after all, that\u2019s where his brains are!). I am a big fan of ball busting which is an extreme kink, but I love it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not to mention, I also love humiliation as it\u2019s such a huge subject area; from flushing men’s head down toilets to using their mouths as ashtrays, or having them lick my muddy boots. I enjoy domestic servitude also and used to have a sub come over and pay to do my housework once a week dressed in a sissy maid outfit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But all in all, the main thing I love is the power exchange and manipulating them into doing what I want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
<\/a>What\u2019s the strangest or funniest thing(s) a man has ever said to you in an online dominatrix session?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\nThis is probably the most difficult question to answer as every day I get so many strange requests. My motto is safe and consensual and I do not do anything with my subs that would require hospital attention, but some things suggested by subs really make me question the minds of men!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Most recently I was asked \u201cCan you tell me to put superglue down my cock?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The fetish requests are the strangest; I had a sub with a fetish for turtleneck sweaters, another for watching me read a specific gossip magazine, and another one today who wanted me to watch him have sex with his hoover.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The list of strange requests is endless. I tell myself that what is normal for someone is bizarre for someone else so I\u2019m always open to hearing about new fetishes and kinks.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Would you ever consider being a Dominatrix in \u2018real life\u2019?<\/strong><\/h5>\n\n\n\nIn terms of my relationship with my partner I’m kind of more submissive in that I like him to take care of me but I’m not into being tied up and whipped. I tried it once and didn\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019m suppose I can be dominant and submissive. I’m definitely very dominant with other men who try to talk to me though. After all the years of learning about fetishes and understanding what men think about when wanking it\u2019s very easy to be put off by them. Sometimes I speak to guys like shit if they come over to chat me up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I am definitely confident and have grown to be more dominant in the way I talk to men. Admittedly, I do get a kick from being cocky with them as they don’t expect it. I feel like I know more about them in one glance then they do. I look at them and think; what weird things are you into?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If I were single I think I\u2019d struggle to find another man like my partner at the moment who is ok with what I do and we have our boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In terms of my relationship with my partner I’m kind of more submissive in that I like him to take care of me but I’m not into being tied up and whipped. I tried it once and didn\u2019t like it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I\u2019m suppose I can be dominant and submissive. I’m definitely very dominant with other men who try to talk to me though. After all the years of learning about fetishes and understanding what men think about when wanking it\u2019s very easy to be put off by them. Sometimes I speak to guys like shit if they come over to chat me up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I am definitely confident and have grown to be more dominant in the way I talk to men. Admittedly, I do get a kick from being cocky with them as they don’t expect it. I feel like I know more about them in one glance then they do. I look at them and think; what weird things are you into?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If I were single I think I\u2019d struggle to find another man like my partner at the moment who is ok with what I do and we have our boundaries.<\/p>\n\n\n\n