What is BDSM?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n\n\nBSDM stands for;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n- B&D – Bondage\/Discipline<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- D&S – Domination\/submission<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- S&M – Sadism and Masochism<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
It’s a little bit of an umbrella term as not all practitioners will be into all things all at once. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
For example, a ‘Daddy’ might sound exciting to you but the idea of them holding a bull whip<\/a> is a complete turn off. You could be desperate to be tidied up, Shibari<\/a> style, but being verbally humiliated<\/a> makes you want to run a mile! See what I mean?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n![\"Bondara](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/4c35530b-b32b-4d6e-9443-34724eb61ed6\/15a472fb-575e-4a67-8b38-9c59570f683a\/c\/dm37-large.jpg?w=800&ssl=1\")
<\/a>Canes, Crops & Whips<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\nStart With a Conversation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n\n\nSpontaneity in sex is great but surprising your partner with a hogtie<\/a> and spiked paddle<\/a> isn’t. Informed consent is a huge part of the kinky community so discuss introducing BDSM to your relationship<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\nTalk to your partner(s) about what aspects of BDSM you’re interested in and why. This is where a Yes, No, Maybe list<\/a> can be super helpful as it allows you to clearly set out your desires and expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\nConversation also allows you to establish BDSM basics like safewords<\/a> and aftercare requirements<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n![\"Bondara](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/84854748-dc01-42bf-8073-eba97c140574\/80f02383-8b7d-40cf-93f6-d29ebf67148e\/c\/hq31-large.jpg?w=800&ssl=1\")
<\/a>Sex Position Restraints<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\nFirst Time? Be Gentle<\/h2>\n\n\n\n\n\nBondage can understandably be a bit intimidating. So, you can ease your way in by indulging in its seductive side. Silk restraints<\/a>, velvet blindfolds<\/a>, your BDSM box doesn’t have to be all leather and chains.<\/p>\n\n\n\nSoftly restraining your partner is a gentle way to introduce restraints<\/a>, and the freedom that comes with surrendering control. This is especially true when mixed with the sweeter elements of sensation play<\/a>, such as a feather tickler<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n![\"Bondara](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/76708e27-7b7d-41a4-a05c-0d733323598f\/b7f82948-fe20-4c88-92f6-f2adaba49c36\/c\/dw20-large.jpg?w=800&ssl=1\")
<\/a>Bondage Restraints & Handcuffs<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\nFind Pleasure in Pain<\/h2>\n\n\n\n\n\nBefore rushing to buy a paddle<\/a>, experiment with spanking<\/a>. Your open palm is more than enough to make their skin pink, plus it plays into all kinds of naughty fantasies of domination. <\/p>\n\n\n\nFloggers<\/a> can <\/em>be sensual too if you’re patient. Rather than flailing on your sub’s backside, try trailing it over their skin where you intend to strike. This tickling tease is a heart racing way of building anticipation and gives them time to recover between swats.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n![\"Bondara](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/2a16a8cc-f033-42ba-8d50-980d4433b7c8\/82525252-87a9-4bd0-9ffe-9b6b6c678b53\/c\/ne02-large.jpg?w=800&ssl=1\")
<\/a>Floggers, Whips & Ticklers<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\nAll the Orgasms<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Everyone likes to cum, but what about if your dominant partner was in control of when or where you could? Orgasm Control<\/a> might sound extreme but it’s actually pretty accessible. If you’ve ever held in an orgasm in an attempt to cum together, you’re already part way there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\nOrgasm Control comes in generally two shades: orgasm denial and forced orgasms. At the extreme end denial involves chastity cages<\/a>, but its saucier side is edging<\/a> – where you stop and start pleasure with the intention of holding back release. This can be extremely erotic when incorporated to a bondage scene, and makes the end results extremely intense.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n![\"Bondara](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/d36a359a-e0a0-43c6-b4d6-5f78c8427d64\/2e7b0d31-b4a4-47af-9cb6-20e597998f3e\/c\/dn01-large.jpg?w=800&ssl=1\")
<\/a>Delay Sprays & Creams<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n\n\nMeanwhile, forced orgasms<\/a> (scary name aside) is the kinky practice of bringing your partner to orgasm again and again, usually while they’re restrained. This can be achieved manually or using vibrators<\/a>. A common scene in fetish porn is for a woman to have a massage wand<\/a> held against her clit with a harness<\/a> until she has multiple orgasms.<\/p>\n\n\n\nAs one of our customers we’re going to assume you’re comfortable with orgasms from sex toys, so think of this as just the next step up.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
\n![\"Bondara](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/media\/products\/ea4b3639-ecc2-4665-9b17-6d86e8d85fa5\/9f0aa8a9-b2a9-48b5-bb3c-68b7d5df58f7\/c\/cr64-large.jpg?w=800&ssl=1\")
<\/a>Massage Wands<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\nIs Everyone Kinky?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Ah, jury’s out on that one. However, we’re always of the opinion that it’s better to try it and not like it, than to live in judgement (and curiosity). Of course, what one person might thing is kinky, another will think it’s quite tame!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you find that including a little bondage here, or a little discipline there makes sex that bit more exciting, embrace it. You don’t have to bust out the leather every time, experiment with it like you would spicy food. Kinks are a natural, and enjoyable element of sexuality. Just be sure to stay safe and have fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Have we piqued your interest? Why not swing by our Bondage for Beginners<\/a> page and start building your bondage box.<\/p>\n\n\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n\t\t\t\t\t
BSDM stands for;<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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- B&D – Bondage\/Discipline<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- D&S – Domination\/submission<\/li>\n\n\n\n
- S&M – Sadism and Masochism<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n
It’s a little bit of an umbrella term as not all practitioners will be into all things all at once. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
For example, a ‘Daddy’ might sound exciting to you but the idea of them holding a bull whip<\/a> is a complete turn off. You could be desperate to be tidied up, Shibari<\/a> style, but being verbally humiliated<\/a> makes you want to run a mile! See what I mean?<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
\n<\/a>Canes, Crops & Whips<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n Start With a Conversation<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\n\nSpontaneity in sex is great but surprising your partner with a hogtie<\/a> and spiked paddle<\/a> isn’t. Informed consent is a huge part of the kinky community so discuss introducing BDSM to your relationship<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Talk to your partner(s) about what aspects of BDSM you’re interested in and why. This is where a Yes, No, Maybe list<\/a> can be super helpful as it allows you to clearly set out your desires and expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Conversation also allows you to establish BDSM basics like safewords<\/a> and aftercare requirements<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
\n<\/a>Sex Position Restraints<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n First Time? Be Gentle<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\n\nBondage can understandably be a bit intimidating. So, you can ease your way in by indulging in its seductive side. Silk restraints<\/a>, velvet blindfolds<\/a>, your BDSM box doesn’t have to be all leather and chains.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Softly restraining your partner is a gentle way to introduce restraints<\/a>, and the freedom that comes with surrendering control. This is especially true when mixed with the sweeter elements of sensation play<\/a>, such as a feather tickler<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
\n<\/a>Bondage Restraints & Handcuffs<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n Find Pleasure in Pain<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
\n\nBefore rushing to buy a paddle<\/a>, experiment with spanking<\/a>. Your open palm is more than enough to make their skin pink, plus it plays into all kinds of naughty fantasies of domination. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Floggers<\/a> can <\/em>be sensual too if you’re patient. Rather than flailing on your sub’s backside, try trailing it over their skin where you intend to strike. This tickling tease is a heart racing way of building anticipation and gives them time to recover between swats.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
\n<\/a>Floggers, Whips & Ticklers<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n All the Orgasms<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Everyone likes to cum, but what about if your dominant partner was in control of when or where you could? Orgasm Control<\/a> might sound extreme but it’s actually pretty accessible. If you’ve ever held in an orgasm in an attempt to cum together, you’re already part way there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\n\nOrgasm Control comes in generally two shades: orgasm denial and forced orgasms. At the extreme end denial involves chastity cages<\/a>, but its saucier side is edging<\/a> – where you stop and start pleasure with the intention of holding back release. This can be extremely erotic when incorporated to a bondage scene, and makes the end results extremely intense.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
\n<\/a>Delay Sprays & Creams<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n \n\nMeanwhile, forced orgasms<\/a> (scary name aside) is the kinky practice of bringing your partner to orgasm again and again, usually while they’re restrained. This can be achieved manually or using vibrators<\/a>. A common scene in fetish porn is for a woman to have a massage wand<\/a> held against her clit with a harness<\/a> until she has multiple orgasms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
As one of our customers we’re going to assume you’re comfortable with orgasms from sex toys, so think of this as just the next step up.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
\n<\/a>Massage Wands<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n
\n\n\n\nIs Everyone Kinky?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Ah, jury’s out on that one. However, we’re always of the opinion that it’s better to try it and not like it, than to live in judgement (and curiosity). Of course, what one person might thing is kinky, another will think it’s quite tame!<\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you find that including a little bondage here, or a little discipline there makes sex that bit more exciting, embrace it. You don’t have to bust out the leather every time, experiment with it like you would spicy food. Kinks are a natural, and enjoyable element of sexuality. Just be sure to stay safe and have fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Have we piqued your interest? Why not swing by our Bondage for Beginners<\/a> page and start building your bondage box.<\/p>\n\n\n\t
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