2. Find the Clit! <\/h4>\n\n\n\n
Sometimes, the clitoris feels like an elusive little thing that must move around because of how some people struggle to find it, but honestly, it doesn’t! With 38% of straight women saying they orgasm at least once during sex if clitoral stimulation occurs<\/a>, it really is important that you find the clit. Many women can’t orgasm from vaginal penetration alone, so ensuring you cover all bases with some bean-flicking action is essential if you want to make her cum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Further down, I’ll give you some more cunnilingus tips about combining external and internal pleasure points for mindblowing results.<\/p>\n\n\n So, where is the clitoris then? If you refer to the handy diagram above, you’ll see that it sits above the urethra, which is above the vaginal opening. The externally visible part of the clit is quite small, averagely measuring about 2mm up to 1cm. You may have to move the clitoral hood to see the clitoris, but trust me, it’s always in the same place \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n\n\n\n For such a small thing, the clit is very, very sensitive for some, so spend time getting to know the rest of the vulva and your partner’s body as well. It can make the whole experience much more enjoyable if you take your time kissing down their stomach and the inside of their legs before teasing around the mons pubis and labia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Now, for anyone who’s worried about taste or smell, I’ll be honest: it’s not a bouquet of roses. But it shouldn’t be! Everyone’s natural smell will be slightly different, but it is going to smell\u2026 like a vulva. A partner should appreciate and enjoy the scent of their playmate as opposed to making them feel self-conscious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n We’re not doctors here at Bondara, so if you are concerned about the health of your vagina, please refer to this guide<\/a> and contact your GP.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I couldn’t find the exact origins of this method, but what I could find was an abundance of women asking men to STOP doing this. If you’re not familiar, the ABC or Alphabet technique is when you draw letters on your partner’s clit or vulva.<\/p>\n\n\n\n The problem with this is each letter will feel different, so you won’t be maintaining the constant rhythm necessary to bring your lover to climax. It also often involves forming a pointy, probing shape with your tongue, which is seriously not enjoyable.<\/p>\n\n\n\t![\"Bondara](\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.bondara.co.uk\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/47456961091_b1fc8cec41_c.jpg?resize=799%2C420&ssl=1\")
3. That Being Said\u2026 Give Some Love to the Whole Vulva<\/h4>\n\n\n\n
4. Unlearn Your ABCs<\/h4>\n\n\n\n